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[ronna]

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@dondon.

I was hmmm.. let say na shock ko.
I thought guys ra mag ing ana hasta pud diay gurls.. hahay...

Basically, based from what you posted, I can sense na you loved her a lot and that she is taking you for granted. There are times that gurls need someone to shelter her, protect and love her even though she is loving someone else. It hurts to admit that, but it's true. If we get hurt, we need diversion but it doesn't mean that we dont love you, it's just that there is someone else that we love more.

Gurls.. gurls.. gurls... I know she loves you.. but not that much. It is right that you should ask her.
You wont be tagged along all the way and get hurt all the time. Ask her and tell her you are willing to wait, stay and at least be there for her. Gurls need that. You'll never know she'll realize t'was you that she needeed and loved all along.

You're lucky, she had you as a friend and did not commit herself to you. She knows you'll get hurt if she did.
She's trying to draw a line between both of you cos she already expected these things to happen. And she didnt want you to lose all your ego and self respect. If she kissed you/made love with you. She might have felt something real. She needs time and she needs you. Show her your love. (That is if you really love her and that is if you are willing to move on.)
You have been hurt and it'll hurt more if you wont fight for her. :mrgreen:

[dondon2208]

guys.... i am very thankful for ol ur quotes... ur advices... just yesterday we talked and she is wid her ex olredi... sakit!!! but wat can i dowat can any1 doanywayz... i'm ok... still chilling up... but n reality badly hurt... still my feelings stands eventhough right now we r just frens...
i'l stil wait... hu knows, tym may shift...i'l stil continue wat i'm doing wid her...be her best fren, her crying shoulder & her comforter...

having fun at dis stage i beliv is a hard thing 2 do...i just got to go over it... guyzzz thank you so much... God Bless u ol...

[diem]

@dondon2208, bro my sincerest sympathies to your recent situation. So be it, let it be. All's fair in love. She's made her choice. Let's respect that and make the best of it.

I sincerely hope for you my friend that you will move on. Do not lock yourself to the past and your present with her, open up to the future for possibilities. You are a child of day, turn your sights to the sun and hope you'll find a young lady whose heart is free and is warm like yours.

Wishing you all the best in life and in love!

[mata_hari]

@dondon i don't know if this helps... but i have once been in your shoes and this has been my comfort... just wanna share

Terra Incognizant
by Prometheus

You would think by now, I would know my way around,
I shouldn't miss you so badly, I should be on familiar ground.
How many more lonely years, must meander by,
until I learn the lesson, it does no good to cry.
What manner of iron will, must some people possess,
to be always looking forward, to never accept regress.
Perhaps if I was willing, to let someone take me by the hand,
they could show me a happy place, in this unfamiliar land.
Perhaps I'm only homesick, for all the joys that once were mine,
I must accept that they and you, belong to another place and time.
But I know that deep within my heart, there's a place where only you reside,
and when the pain of loneliness comes, it knows that is where I hide.
So if sometimes it seems to you, I'm clinging to the past,
it's mostly because I can't yet accept, that our love didn't last.
No matter how hard I try, I've yet to get over you,
for the part of me that's still alive, believes you love me too.
Maybe there will come a day, when that part will finally die,
and feeling strong with a heart reborn, a new love I will finally try.
And what a splendid day that will be, when I awaken to discover,
I'm happily learning a great new land, with a great new friend and lover.

[jugs_06]

@dondon: sorry bout that dude.. but what are you gonna do right? just move on with life and understand that that's how it is sometimes.. it's good that you're chillin' up although yeah i know it hurts real bad.. i bet you'll gonna get over it soon.. goodluck in your journey.. :mrgreen:

[crush_23]

ani jud ni mainlab di makatulo? hahay!wa pa man ko luv prob karon panahuna...nus-a pa kaha naa.toink!

[ronna]

@dondon.

bro.. sakita ana bro woi.
pero ana jud na ang gugmang gi-liver.
:mrgreen: bilib man au ko nimo bro. unta magmahay ang gurl nga iya kang gpakawalan. panagsa nalang guys nga ing ana ka tarong rung panahuna. honestly ako, in all my relationships? pirme palpak. i am always betrayed, but i never stopped loving myself.. kaw sad bro, learn to love yourself. and please dony fear loving again. dont close your doors.

God knows you're in pain. He'll comfort you in His own way.

[dondon2208]

thnx for da sympathy guys... it would b a lie if i tell you dat i'm ok olredi...ning ani jud d i kng mka fel ta ning ani den da result is a failure.. paeta!!!! pro no wori my frens, sooner or later...things wil b just fine... i hop...

again, thank you to u ol...

[ronna]

haaay...
paet jud ning love nuh?
especially if ikaw ray nag love sa tao.
he doesnt even have time for you, and wont even take you seriously.
or he doesn't even know that you are loving him already.
cge lang binuang. hahay..
maybe the right one hasn't come.

[4everlove18]

hello guys,hmmmm!!!i just posted this new topic coz im seeking an advice for everyone of you..huhuhuh

hhmmmmm!!!know wat i dont know how to mend this hearthache i felt right now..he was my boyfriend for almost 9 months but he had a first gf d aiY!!!unfinished business...i still continue to him because i sill love him and he let me fell that he loves me more than he loves the other girl..i still continue to fight for my feeling coz i really expected that its me who he loves the most..TANGA jud au ko i almost gave him all of my love and time but last week i ask him if he stil love me but then he just tell me na ngbalik na sila sa other girl.. huhuhuhuh its really painful to be rejected.i talk to him asking why its not me who he choose...!!!!its really painful to failed from your expectation...
but now i just accept that this is the reality its me who will be left in the line...hmmmmmm!!!!
but wa jud ko naglagot niya,i cant believe na nabuhat na niya coz for me nice person jud bya cya gud!cgoro this is the reson why mglisod ko ug accept for wat had hapen!!!the problem right now is that i still feel the pain jud sakit pa jud kaau,i can still remember him and i want to be brave enough that para ma.ok nko...everyday pako mkahilak gani..

i need advices mah friend i want to get over for the love that i was rejected...tanx