got myself in a complicated situation.....

[yvonne6]

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clearly someone is using someone.. dali raman na sabton mam.. di lang ka ganahan mo sabot tngae.. selfish kaayo ng tao nga mo ingon ug duha ang love.. suwayi daw ug ingon niya kung ok raba niya duhaon sad nmo cla..ahaha.

i so like this advice. in my case, dili nako kaya oi. maka paranoid ni ug mura lang kag mag huwat mabinlan. ug dili mo kuyog, mag sige kag huna2, asa kaha to sila ron, ga unsa kaha to sila karon, nag kuan nasad to sila. haha. mavuang kog ako, bahalag wala koy uyab basta naa lang koy peace of mind. shitty relationships are only for those people who love themselves less, maybe not at all. personal opinion na, sorry sa malain

[sushikandi]

TS, look on his TRACK RECORD!! A cheater is always a cheater. Its a shame you left your bf of 5 yrs for this player. This psuedo relationship u have is not going to work. Ok heres the deal, he breaks up with gf#1, kamo na, would u trust that he will be faithful to u knowing you started ur relationship with infidelity? Hmmmm wake up TS. Youll never be happy with this kind of person, it maybe great now, but tell u its not worth it. Get ur ex back thats if he still wants u.

Get out of this relationship now, you deserve better than this.

[*real-bro*]

kanindot sa imo story bro wui.....mora man kug kasuka-on aw, kahilakon sa imo storya bro. padayona lang na bro, nag mu nalang mo. prangkahe lang ang babaye bro sa pros and cons sa inyo relationship, para sad ng dili siya mag mukhang tanga. I prefer to make more years....adjusting period. hehehehe.You're my brother. The road is long.....and many a winding turns...Good Luck Bro.

[EightEqualsD]

Your bf should tell you about the status of their relationship (with the real gf). If hes not telling you anything that means they are doing fine,no maybe they are doing great. It might just so happen that your bf is not satisfied with her but he still wants that girl to be his wife... So sometime in the future you will tell your self that you have wasted your time...

[cassiopeia]

ses,how would you feel if ikaw tong naa sa shoes sa gf sa guy?

[pantaleon]

hi guys. never thought in my entire life i will be caught in a complicated situation. people has high regards of me for my being wise,a good advicer and buotan. im currently n a relationship where my bf s a lot older than me. he's single. the prob is, he has a gf. i feel for him after a couple of years of being friends. he would always avoid speaking of his gf as he said dghan sila og giagian. and then, before i knew it. i fell for him. too late, when i woke up and remember that he has a gf. by that time,nagkakami na. the hard part is, i left a 5 yrs relationship with my bf,kay when i realized i was falling, i thought it would be unfair. dghan nasad mi issues ato, pero he was really caring and good. its been 9 months now nga nagkabuwag mi ang nagkakami sa bag o. the older guy would always tell me he loves me. so many times i tried to break away sa iya, but circumstances will not let me. we work in the same bldg, im in the 10th floor and he's on the 3rd. pirmi jud mi magkakita unya naa pa jud project coordination meeting nga sya mag head. dont know what to do na guys. im so confused. now he told me that he loves us both daw sa iya gf. should i still hold on? i always thought nga kaya nako mugawas ani nga situation baya,pero karun, murag lisod na jud. i wanted to stay and show him what it is to be loved by me. kay he had so many gfs before, which most of the issues are infidelity. sya man sad kadghan na nagka infidel.nobody knows about us kay nglikay mi sa issues. im so confused now. i no longer know what to do.

looking forward for your advices and comments....i cant tell my friends about this man gud. noone knows but me...

Wooow!!!! 5 years na relationship sa imong karaan na BF? Wow!!!!

Unya imong lang bulagan para sa tigulang pa nimo? Wow!!!

[GhoStSheLL]

Buwagi na TS.

Don't settle for being second best.

Nahog man gud ka na "option" ka niya,

besides..ug ang guy gali harap-harapan kau mangabit..samot pa na nga mabuhat nasad na niya nimo in the near future. ang iya kay excuse ra man na kay kabalo tingale na xa na ganahan ka niya. Gisakyan2 ra ka ana. BREAK THINGS OFF and regain your dignity!

Never go down to his level TS. He's not worth it.

[ambokz]

laki man jud ko,pru sko tan-aw,grabeng swerte aning tiguwanga jud.hehehe...on ur part ts kasabot man ko,pru ipairal nmo imo mind,kay sko tan-aw imo rman heart imo gi follow kron gud.best thing to do is stay out of it nlang jud....as saying goes "daghan pang nag brief, day"..hehehe..

[filibustero]

player jud kaayo... see how he always avoids talking about his GF when he is with you...

para ma deceive ka into a sense nga wa siyay GF or wala silay klaro, then ma hulog imong feelings niya...

[danver2099]

the worst thing pa jud is, he always mention about having a kid.what will happen if ako ang mauna?

hehe... nakuha na diay ka mam kay ingon man ka basin kaw ang mauna...seems like the guy is just waiting kung kinsay mauna ug buntis ninyo kay mao iyang pakaslan, kamao sad ning tawhana dah.. murag ako.. hehe.. murag lisod na jud na ug biya if naabot na mo ana ka intimate nga stage..but if you are in doubt jud sa inyong relationship and you feel na wala moy padulngan, then better end it, now nah! prepare lang ug balde sawd sa mga luha... hehe.. but dont worry, maanad ra ka madugay...