The One Who Got Away

[IMD]

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tokidoki : i think we hav d same situation jud.. wen i read ur blog naka relate jud ko sa imu gibati..
ako kai its almost 7 years na but i still cant forget my greatest love. i dunno y i kept on thinking bout him nga maski naa nakoi anak sa lain nga guy..and tinuod ka lai maka compare niya.. everytym i ask myself why i kep on thinking bout him, i always end up telling mysaelf 'HES JUST THE ONE FOR ME'

[tokidoki]

And so... the feeling when we feel we've found our 'one true love' is wonderful... for the moment. Pero I tell you this, one day you will see that person greater than her or not. And if you can... choosing who to pursue next time... ready your requirements. For love is governed by principles. Don't stoop down yes I agree... just to have a gf.

And so... the feeling when we feel we've found our 'one true love' is wonderful... for the moment. Pero I tell you this, one day you will see that person greater than her or not. And if you can... choosing who to pursue next time... ready your requirements. For love is governed by principles. Don't stoop down yes I agree... just to have a gf.

Just too bad you didn't get to keep her... this and her shall forever be in your heart tokidoki. Di gyud na siya mawala and kasabot ko. She'll be one unreachable star sa imo life but you see her unendlessly. Bisan ma minyo naka. Basin in your part life napugos to iyang soul ug minyo nimo hehe and now... the present she went to find love away. You probably were a man who married a woman who didn't really love you but still smiled and kissed you because you yourself is beautiful.

I like this one. I am hopeful and somewhat confident that I will always find someone better. In fact, I did find women who were better in other aspects but not physically. I'm a person who is very meticulous in what he wants. I have always believed that people who say that "bahala'g unsa basta babae/lalake" or "any guy will do just as long as tarong siya" are just plain desperate or just hypocrites. If you know exactly what you wanted you would include physical aspects as well and saying this isn't a factor is just plain LAME. If you look around you it has always been proven time and again that people who know what they want in life are successful - even in relationships. Finding a mate based on character is just a half-cocked approach and I will never follow this advice. So you're right, when someone comes along naa gyud na ang requirements and after "rigorous examination"....eheheh.... dapat makapasar. Nya saun man wala pa man gyud. Don't get me wrong, guys, I did find a few more relationships that were worth more keeping than her but, like I said, they eventually don't measure in the long term. I don't care if it takes me months to get to know a person basta from now on I'm really making sure if a girl is a keeper. Naa bitaw daghan in the past, i tolerated women who didn't measure up. Daghan kaayong gipang saad nga wa diri wa didto nga mahulog nalang siguro sila nanguyab nako but where are they now? Where are their promises? Storya ra kutob. At the first sign of a problem they break. So you see, words mean nothing to me actually. While I know a guy has a good chance of keeping his word I have yet to meet a woman who can actually "WALK THE WALK" so to speak. While I can't really expect that much anyway since women are more vocal it really frustrates you nga ipaasa lang gani ka sa wala, don't you agree?

Someone once told me to chance the type of girl coz my type usually mopatol daw ug foreigner or taken na by a foreigner. lol. no offense intended sa maigo, it wasn't me who said it. i still like morena girls. bahala na. I have an affinity to brown complexion.

[tokidoki]

tokidoki : i think we hav d same situation jud.. wen i read ur blog naka relate jud ko sa imu gibati..
ako kai its almost 7 years na but i still cant forget my greatest love. i dunno y i kept on thinking bout him nga maski naa nakoi anak sa lain nga guy..and tinuod ka lai maka compare niya.. everytym i ask myself why i kep on thinking bout him, i always end up telling mysaelf 'HES JUST THE ONE FOR ME'

Well, at least naka move on naka in a way. But as for me. Di sad ko tantong pa martyr. I know that I will find someone who will outdo not only her but everyone else in the past. After all, there was a divine reason ni Lord ngano wa mi gipadayon. Naa gyud siguro maabot nga mas maayo. Nya I am confident that when and IF that woman comes along and I fall in love with her everything else will just be faint memory of a forgotten love. Perhaps by then I can bid her goodbye and completely set her free.

[Ms.Beau]

@tokidok & IMD:

i understand the feelings noh but let me just say nga ma-depress man sad ta sa inyung gipanulti oi! i don't know, but the way you said it IMD murag hopeless ba nga ma transfer imong affections to your husband instead? perhaps it's because you haven't challenged the thought of "Because he's just the one for me"? They say man gud that those thoughts would just make you long for that person who's not yours or not in your life. Here's an alternative affirmation: "I don't need to look or long for the one...my husband now is THE ONE".

okidoki, ya part man sad jud na ang attractiion pero you might miss out on potentially good relationships if you narrow it down to morenas lang. sometimes our physical preferences would change as time goes by especially if we've been exposed to variety.

i don't mean to argue, i do respect your views and feelings. just sharing mine.

[n`gel]

So you're right, when someone comes along naa gyud na ang requirements and after "rigorous examination"....eheheh.... dapat makapasar.

You know what... look for that intellectual spark. The moment you talk to her... you'd feel that deep connection. You'll know it when you just start nodding your head even if her viewpoint contradicts yours. I can totally relate to this. :mrgreen:

[tokidoki]

@Ms.Beau: actually there came a time in my life nga I digged fair-skinned ladies. Eventually na frustrated ko kai mas high maintenance na sila and you just can't drag them anywhere kai "madaut kuno ila panit". Basta daghan arte basta puti. So I have to inconvenience the entire world for her skin? No way! Trust me when I say that my taste in women is the result of years of finding out what I want. I am in the business right now of trying to find out what I want in life and that includes finding my mate. I believe narrowing down what to look for speeds that process up, don't you think? Having no one in mind projects nga wa koi klaro and I don't want that image. Just so white girls don't feel left out it doesn't mean I don't find them attractive it's just that I still haven't outlined what I'm looking for in them. Unless I have a specific white girl in mind, I don't have to go that path - YET. So don't get me wrong - I like them too and just so everyone knows, I only had ONE morena gf and that's the one that got away. Maybe because of that fact is why I find them so elusive. Sigh, men always search for the one thing they can't have. hahahaha... LOL. Also, I find that morena complexion actually makes me react more towards a woman. Hmmm....I believe I wrote a blog about this just below the link I gave if you view the main site: http://ramblingchad.blogspot.com/

@n`gel: ma-ilhan ra na nimo if magkasinabot mo sa tao. I believe there's no need to point it out coz maskin mga friends nmo you met them because of a common factor. We all join together because of our chemistry. heheheh...

[amael]

read your blog. nice. seldom read blogs (love stories) written by guys.

[Ms.Beau]

ah ok, tokidoki. what you're looking for really is compatibility in lifestyle. you'd like to have a partner who would not be too high maintenance coz you yourself are not that kind (i hope...don't want to find out double standards here! hehe). based on your experience ang mga fair-skinned kay mga arte kaayu when it comes to maintaining the fairness of their skin. but just a reminder ha, don't generalize...i'm sure there's at least one fair-skinned girl out there nga dili mo mind nga mo darken siya. and i'm sure also that there is at least one morena out there nga deep inside gusto mo puti! if the time comes when she decides to hve herself bleached naku high maintainance na na.

so between a morena nga high maintenance (as in in other aspects) and a fair-skinned girl nga "low maintenance", would you choose the latter? just curious.

[n`gel]

I agree tokidoki... pilian pud ko ug friends. Di ko kasakay ug mga lame chuvachuchu... 'ey yadz... i bought this really cool casing for my phone, oh my Godddd' blah blah blah blah disgrace to the female race. Haha OT nako.

[IMD]

tnx ms. beau: i respect ur opinion..
tokidoki: la pa ko ka move on uy... la man gani ko ga minyo kai d ko sure sa ako gibati sa ako uyab karon

pero i dunno lang sad ha kai everytime mu ask ko sa Ginoo og signs if cya ba jud 4 me, tubagon man sad ko.
ang birthday ako anak, ni fall jud sa bday sa akong great love unya sa kadaghan interns sa kalibutan kai ngano iyaha pa bestfriend nagbantai nko sa labor room...twist of faith?? i dunno....