i think this is true. my mom, while she was in the states always sends things just for me, my lola, and uncle. she did this even when she knew about her having cancer. anyway, 2 months before she died, she sent 3 boxes and we were shocked why she sent so many. the boxes arrived and we discovered that she sent things for all our relatives and even to our closest neighbors. after learning that all was distributed to the proper recepients, 3 weeks later she died. sad but true.