gusto ka ma usab imong uyab????

[cristine_reyes]

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most women here in istorya starts threading about problematic relationships or attitude issues of bf/husbands who are very self centered and abusive. and we have end up doing the wrong things thinking that what we are currently doing will eventually awaken the senses of our man and HE will eventually change. WRONG KAAU!!!! pagka dakong wrong. i am guilty of this too. most women would think ihatag nako tanan ug labaw pa para maka realize siya kung unsa nako siya ka love ug mag bag o siya kay rare na ang girl nga parehas nako. pagka tanga na lang jud nako nga ingon ani sad akong pag tuo sa una. truth is, dili diay nimo mabag o ang lalaki by loving him so much. mas mosamot lang ang pagpa badlong sa lalaki kay confident siya nga maski unsa siya ka badlongon, madawat nimo kay inspite sa iyang pag balewala nimo, dawat ka, ni cheat siya, dawat ka, ni cheat siya usab, dawat gihapon ka. never ending. ug gusto ka mausab ang imong uyab, mao ni ang solusyon, BIYAE. no kidding!! almost everyone would only realize what they have only if they already lost it.

tumpak do i need to say more?

[d!orj]

hmm,,once gane mu cheat cge pabuyag and gibuhat na nimu tanan para ma ok jud or ma change sya then nothing happened meaning that guy is really not worth it jud,,better let go..

[yvonne6]

napay pa promise2 nga dili na dili na jud mo usab. ni ask ko, what makes this year so special that u think nga ang wala nimo mabuhat sa pila ka tuig mabuhat nimo karon? hahaha. no answer. and i was right all along, makes no difference this year. mao ra gihapon ang batasan, nothing changed for the better. walay dreams, wala jud bisan unsa. not even a decent job. hahayz. ako nalay nihimo sa changed, i ended the relationship. its not going anywhere anyways, i saw that for several years pero kani laging gaan man nato ug daghang chance ang taw, thats it. hope maka realize siya parehas anang usa nga kinahanglan niya i fix iyang mga personal issues. goodluck ex

[nilbud]

ambot mausab paba kaha na kay f batasan mao na gyud na hehe

[rAiNe_]

been there done that..
the most rational thing i did in my whole life..

[singketpride]

gusto kaayo..how i wish ma usab sya pero when that tym comes i guess wla nami.

aw... pareha kaau ta...

[kimleeKINO_choi]

aw... pareha kaau ta...

saonz nga faets mn usbon oie...i mean labo na mausab pa.

[EightEqualsD]

Di man jd na cla mausab...

[raikiriken]

nice! lisod mausab ang kina-iya pero mada pa na ug matudloan pa nato! pero nonetheless their still the one that makes us feel love

[messy_babycate]

@yvonne: upon reading your posts one by one... naka-conclude ko nga we are exactly the same... I'm not sure if you are physically abused though but I'm not... mas grabe ang gihimo nako kay emotionally battered ko. SAME Ta nga naay anak ato nga guy..same ta nga namroblema kay wala man gani siya'y decent job.
Nice thought on persons saying how can this guy handle a family and take good care of us when he can't even manage to straighten his own life.

I ended the quite long relationship two days ago...it was even my birthday. I ended it for good. I am not bitter but sure I'm hurting. But despite me bleeding, I am not planning to make it up to him. It was just two days ago but I can feel myself breathing more easily than I ever did in the past few years that we were together.

I've been trying to get in touch with him these past few days not for us to get back together but for us to have a decent ending. I want to talk over how things would change and what will be our new set up knowing there's child in tow. He's not replying... but whenever I'm not around he sneaks to see my baby...which is fine for me.

I know people would say (esp those who are madly inlove) that sayun sultion pero lisud buhaton. I know that phrase too well. Many people have advised me to leave him but di jud ko kay I love him... but then realization came when I was too hurt.. I finally realized how hard the days were for me while it seems to easy for him. Kanang feeling nga ikaw ra jud bah..sakit kaayo oi. Naa kay partner pero imo ra gihapon tanan.

At first sige lang kog wish mausab siya. No joke...tanan nga falling stars ako makit-an mao na ako wish. But then kron maka-ana ko, ngano magstay paman ko kung napakita na niya nga di jud niya kaya mag-usab? di ko gusto akoy muingon pag-change kay gusto nako siya mismo...but then bisan ug ako na jud gani siya gihangyo wala lang gihapon.

I felt tired of waiting. I don't need a man to be happy. I was once happy being single but I became to dependent on him that I can't imagine living w/o him. But surprisingly, I feel very fine now. Felt like I've been locked up in a room for years and now I'm finally out.

TO ALL WHO ARE EXPERIENCING THE SAME SITUATION:

LEAVE - you may have kids but it won't do them any good. What good can an irresposible father do for his kids? If he really loves you then he will find ways to prove he can change....but wait till he finally does before you decide to get back together. He can promise to change but by and by you'll go back to the old situation. If you have separated ways then he haven't changed at all for the sake of having his family back, then be thankful. It only means that you were wise enough to leave him than wait for years and years and suffer some more.

God speed beautiful and strong ladies! We can do it! Before loving someone, make sure you love yourself first.