let love find u is somewhat bs..a man might come into your life offering u everything a girl could ask for but u dont have feelings for the guy? would you love a person because he can assure u that he will never break your heart? thats one part u r looking for but not entirely. what im saying is, relationships are trial and error, its the dry run before jumping into marriage. we are just people to commit mistakes including mistakes of being misleaded. u thought the person u found is what u thought they are and turned out to be not. that is so human. dili mana player ang daghan kag naagian nga relationship. even if u just got into your first relationship and yet u have 3 more on the side at the same time is obviously playing. having one person in just a particular time even if its shortlived is not considered as playing. gets?