Manguyab while studying......

[mybuuz]

depende kung unsa ang upbringing sa bata, it could affect his decision and understanding.
basta sakto lang ug pasabot ang bata, okay raman siguro.
but for me, definitely NO!

[ellakylamarie]

1st year high school?
sure oe! gidugo na nang 1st year highschool?
wa ko kahibaw ug kanus-a ksagaran madalaga jud ang mga babae, pero grabeh sad anang 1st year highschool oe! ZZZzzzzz! Hai naku panahon!

personally...against man ko ani, pero mao man ni nabunotan namo sa among debate (values education) kay "PWEDE" dats why ask ko sa inyong opinion....

[anjerika]

i would recommend what i have gone through - wa gyud ko kauyab pag college. kay wa may manguyab pud. hahaha! samot na pag high school.


bitaw there would be a lot of things na pwede mong ma focus og enjoy while naa ka ana nga edad and stage sa life. di man sa ingon makadaot gyud always if manguyab ka dayon, pero you get to enjoy things you want to enjoy your age - dili mag rush sa relationships especially serious na gyud.


in my experience i was able to enjoy a lot and focus on things that i love. studies (char), and online gaming. karon nga graduate na, career na og love life ang atubang, full time! hahaha

[d!orj]

i started uyab uyab pag college naman,,hehe hmm well ok rman nah basta you always remind your daughter or son sa mga bawal and unsa jud angay,,for me, need jud open ka sa imu mga kids specially ani na stage para ba dili sila mailang mu open sa imu bout crushes or love life,,mas nice man gud kaw ila first duolan kana ma comfy na sila mu tell nimu bah,naa nay trust both you and your kids,,sa ako man gud wala jud ng open commu sa akong parents,,which is not good,,thats why if mu abot ang time magka anak man gane ko nahan ko close mi sa akong mga anak,,aside sa parent ko nila,nahan ko ma feel nila na mura sad kog ila best friend na masulti an nila sa la mga probs not only sa studies but also sa love life,,

[mio]

It's part of growing up

[skullyaiai2003]

ok lng=)wala nata mahems.hehe proper guidance is more impt than restrictions =)

[tisayishot]

With my experience, Para nko it's too early ky dili maka focus sa studies.Crushes ok lang... Unsa man nang uyab2 kung mahuman na. my mother was very strict to the rule na no boyfriend while studying.. im glad I followed her advice 'coz I finish my degree and I had boyfriends na after I passed the board..no regrets.

[amethyst8885]

1st year high school? - it's a case to case basis. it depends sa level of maturity sa tawo. then dapat open communication with the parents jud. Parents should see to it na available sila for their growing teens.
1st year college? - ok kaau... i had my first serious relationship in my first year as a college stud. we told our parents and kept a promise to be responsible individuals, and we did. I finished college, passed the board, landed a job, and now I'm happily married to that same guy back in college 8 years ago. we managed to keep the relationship for 8 years tungod kay with blessings na man sa family from the start...dili tago2x!

so okay ra manguyab while studying basta keep in mind lang na education ang priority!

[Soul Doctor]

To all parents.... okey ra mo inyong 1st year daughter magsugod na panguyab?

No, its a sign of ungratefulness.
you are not sent to school to have boyfriends.
you do not need them.
you are in college to develop discipline.
that includes controlling your self and prioritizing your life goals.

if my daughter have boyfriends while in college then ill let her stop studying and focus on getting boyfriends.

my first daughter have boyfriends since high school, her priorities changed since then.
when in college, it is boyfriend, dota before school.
now she is married, both of them are jobless, she has an autistic child, and has not finished her course until now.

my other daughter have boyfriend in her first year in college.
i let her stopped studying and focus on having boyfriend.
you have to choose only one. studies or boyfriend.
you can not have them both.

pildi pirmi ang studies.
hikapa ang libro nimo kiligon ba ka?
hikapa imong boyfriend di ba grabe kaayo ang kilig.
mao nga imba kaayo kung dunganon nimo ang boyfriend and studies.
pirmi jud maulahi ang studies.
tan-awa lang nang naguyabuyab diha.
mopaso, buntis,

akong anak naundang sa eskwela kay nabuntis.

college is an investment.
it is for your own good and for your future.
if you have boyfriends on college, that is bad business.
why go to college if you just want to have boyfriends?

because if you get pregnant, you know you can never work anymore.
your hands will be full taking care of the baby and your husband.

so,if you want a career, you have to focus on that.
finish college with honors so you will not be having a hard time looking for a job.

if you want a family immediately, then focus on that too. find a hard working guy or a rich boyfriend.
so he can support you while you take care of your children.

as a woman it is very seldom to get a good career and take care of family,
unless you are running a business of your own.
sooner or later you are going to give up or lose one of the two.

example kris aquino.
her career is showbiz and it is her priority,
she has to sacrifice her marriage for that.

you have to be mature enough to learn how to balance your career and family.
having a boyfriend and marrying at a young age would not accomplish that.

[colby]

My father told me 4th year college kay okay na mg ka bf, of course when I reached college he decided to change his mind instead he said, "finish your study first."

No big deal, I finished school, now my father lets me decide on my own.