What if dili ganahan ang parents sa imong boylet or girlet nimo?

[Sand Man]

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It all depends now on your boyfriend if padaug siya sa iyang mother or not. I'm not saying na pressuron nimo siya pero, just be proud na after 5 years he has not budged at his mother's pressure.

I'm sure they frequently talk about you when you're not around and she says to him "Unsa may nakita nimo niya? Kadaghang babaye dinha."

Pretty sure his answer was "Coz I love her so...."

[smash]

kong bata paka sure jud dli gnahan imo parents kng naa nka uyab if kng ulitawo nka usually some parent ok ra nila naay uyab ila anak...

[cookiepie_rescuer]

It all depends now on your boyfriend if padaug siya sa iyang mother or not. I'm not saying na pressuron nimo siya pero, just be proud na after 5 years he has not budged at his mother's pressure.

I'm sure they frequently talk about you when you're not around and she says to him "Unsa may nakita nimo niya? Kadaghang babaye dinha."

Pretty sure his answer was "Coz I love her so...."

char sad! ma touch man sad ta ani... but yeah.. before, my bf tried to defend her.. but wala ko nagpadaug.. and now im proud to say that he has learned his lesson... he will listen to me nah... and for his mom, well... wa cya mahims

[Sand Man]

char sad! ma touch man sad ta ani... but yeah.. before, my bf tried to defend her.. but wala ko nagpadaug.. and now im proud to say that he has learned his lesson... he will listen to me nah... and for his mom, well... wa cya mahims

Obviously, being in the middle of a mother vs girlfriend dispute is not easy. It causes dilemmas on his side because I am sure he loves you both.

No son would want to disappoint his mother, but he doesn't want to lose his girlfriend, either. To some it may seem like nothing, pero it all depends on the relationship between the mother and the son. Kung suod sila, it brings a lot of pressure on him. Just making sure I put that in here so you can appreciate (if you haven't already).

But when you say "but wala ko nagpadaug" maka-curious... Do you feel your BF is what some people would call a 'momma's boy'?

Also, what type of a person are you when in an argument? Are you a nagger-type?

[LeeLeePot]

Sus pastilan. Mga babae diay mo nya ang parents sa lalake ang di ganahan sa inyuha? tsk tsk tsk ... makaingon man sad ta ug "HA?!" hehehe

a) only child ang ilang anak?
b) gwapo ang imong uyab?
c) if the answer to b is yes, then unsa man mo duha? direct match mo duha or complementing to each other lang?
d) unsa man mo manamit when moadto sa ilaha?
e) do you have tattoos? skin piercings? emo make-ups? etc.
f) describe what you do the moment mosud ka sa ilang balay?
g) more importantly, what the heck are you girls doing in your boyfriends room??

Let's not forget that the parents may be old-fashioned also.

mureact pud ko..

a.)d xa only son..eldest xa sa 6 kbuok nila nga magigsoon..
b.) d ko gwapuhan nia..peo akong mga friends muingon man nga gwapo.
c.) ang imu bang gnapasabot kng pangit ba ko or gwapa? drechoha ko dong..hahah! ambot knxa namu ang gnalingi pg mgkuyog mi..i really don't mind the way i look mao d naku maingon.
d.) dpende sa mood. usahay nkapambalay ko muadto nla sa laguna all the way from makati..usahay pants and shirt..usahay nkaskirt..if i feel bitchy, mgsuot ko sakung infamous killerheels tas leather leggings and fab top..kng feeling goth, all black w/ accessories..kng feeling anime-ish, i'd wear my contacts tas colorful nga kpop nga damit..does fashion really count that bad?
e.) wla kui tattoo though i want one badly..only piercing naku kai sa upper part sa akong tenga.and no, I ABSOLUTELY ABHOR EMONESS so d ko anang emo get up.more on metal ko dude..which ok ra man pud nila kai their son is in a metal band.
f.) kai d man xla catholic, d ko muamen nila..heheh...mugreet lan ko peo snobon man ko nila mao mudrecho nlan ko sa kwarto sa iyang anak ug mgkulong..i can't stand poor attention.
g.) mginternet ko or kundi kea mgsoundtrip, mgbasa, mgtanaw ug muvi, or mgdula ug MMORPG...naa man xa pc didto..

did i satisfy all your questions?

[Sand Man]

mureact pud ko..

a.)d xa only son..eldest xa sa 6 kbuok nila nga magigsoon..
b.) d ko gwapuhan nia..peo akong mga friends muingon man nga gwapo.
c.) ang imu bang gnapasabot kng pangit ba ko or gwapa? drechoha ko dong..hahah! ambot knxa namu ang gnalingi pg mgkuyog mi..i really don't mind the way i look mao d naku maingon.
d.) dpende sa mood. usahay nkapambalay ko muadto nla sa laguna all the way from makati..usahay pants and shirt..usahay nkaskirt..if i feel bitchy, mgsuot ko sakung infamous killerheels tas leather leggings and fab top..kng feeling goth, all black w/ accessories..kng feeling anime-ish, i'd wear my contacts tas colorful nga kpop nga damit..does fashion really count that bad?
e.) wla kui tattoo though i want one badly..only piercing naku kai sa upper part sa akong tenga.and no, I ABSOLUTELY ABHOR EMONESS so d ko anang emo get up.more on metal ko dude..which ok ra man pud nila kai their son is in a metal band.
f.) kai d man xla catholic, d ko muamen nila..heheh...mugreet lan ko peo snobon man ko nila mao mudrecho nlan ko sa kwarto sa iyang anak ug mgkulong..i can't stand poor attention.
g.) mginternet ko or kundi kea mgsoundtrip, mgbasa, mgtanaw ug muvi, or mgdula ug MMORPG...naa man xa pc didto..

did i satisfy all your questions?

Ahhh ... yours is a bit tricky.

How is the family relationship nila? Are they a close-knit family or something na come-and-go ang mga peeps sa ilang balay (way paki-hay kay naay kanya-kanyang laag)? Who's more into the kids stuff (ex. mo-jam² or storya² sa mga anak), si mama or si papa niya? I would imagine with a son in a metal band they would have a feeling of what sort of friends he will have who will come to their house from time to time. Naa ba sa ilang family ang mokuyog sa mga gigs sa imong uyab?

Kani ra bang mga metal bands gi-associate ra ba ni sa popular media as pirmi sad mag drugs and inom and hardcore sex, so that's gonna factor in there somewhere as well.

Perception is everything baya, so your ever-changing get-up ug moadto ka sa ilaha is not gonna help if medyo conservative iyang family.

[Maikeru]

What will you do if you've been in a relationship for quite awhile already but somehow can't get along with the mom of your partners? how will you deal with it and what will you do?

I experienced this with the parents of my ex. I can sense that they don't like me at all. What I did? Well, i didn't pretend to be someone else, if they won't like me, then dili pud ko mamugos.

[cookiepie_rescuer]

Obviously, being in the middle of a mother vs girlfriend dispute is not easy. It causes dilemmas on his side because I am sure he loves you both.

No son would want to disappoint his mother, but he doesn't want to lose his girlfriend, either. To some it may seem like nothing, pero it all depends on the relationship between the mother and the son. Kung suod sila, it brings a lot of pressure on him. Just making sure I put that in here so you can appreciate (if you haven't already).

But when you say "but wala ko nagpadaug" maka-curious... Do you feel your BF is what some people would call a 'momma's boy'?

Also, what type of a person are you when in an argument? Are you a nagger-type?

others say maybe he is mama's boy coz he would depend on his mom when he make decisions... im not the nagger type... i keep things to myself.. but somehow, i got sick of the situation. so i blurt things out... i mean i cant keep it to myself anymore

[Sand Man]

others say maybe he is mama's boy coz he would depend on his mom when he make decisions...

Ahhh yes. I never really understood these type of people. It's like they haven't realized that they're already all grown up and do not need mommy's approval anymore.

Pero I guess once it's become a habit it's pretty hard to let it go. You, on the other hand, will need TONS of patience for this.

[LeeLeePot]

Ahhh ... yours is a bit tricky.

How is the family relationship nila? Are they a close-knit family or something na come-and-go ang mga peeps sa ilang balay (way paki-hay kay naay kanya-kanyang laag)? Who's more into the kids stuff (ex. mo-jam² or storya² sa mga anak), si mama or si papa niya? I would imagine with a son in a metal band they would have a feeling of what sort of friends he will have who will come to their house from time to time. Naa ba sa ilang family ang mokuyog sa mga gigs sa imong uyab?

Kani ra bang mga metal bands gi-associate ra ba ni sa popular media as pirmi sad mag drugs and inom and hardcore sex, so that's gonna factor in there somewhere as well.

Perception is everything baya, so your ever-changing get-up ug moadto ka sa ilaha is not gonna help if medyo conservative iyang family.

his mom's ok with it..papa nia ang higpit...the band members don't come the house when the father's there...yes naa xlay kanya kanyang lakaw peo dpat muuli on time kai ang papa ang mgwild...as for my get up, i really don't mind if taasan ko nilag kilay..actually waa man naku xa gnaproblema ui..dugay na nakung dawat nga d ko wife material and my bf loves me the way i am mao d ko muadjust for them..ahehehe...mutagad ra ko nila pag ila kong tagdon..ana ra..hahah