Which relationship last longer? Opposite attitude or same attitude?

[BrainFreezeNBox]

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para nako 50/50 ... not totally opposite or same attitude

kung pareha mo isog ug dili palupig.... resulta sige jud away...
kung pareha sad mo hilumon... passive ra sad...di mo "grow" ang relationship...

50/50 jud coz in that process you can see in the other person what you lack and vice-versa...

[messy_babycate]

Honestly, I can't tell. Have been in a relationship before nga ok kaayo siya... we're not really opposite pero muoyon siya nako perme...sometimes kay mas maayo man jud nang magkasumpaki mo to see if tinuoray jud.

With my partner right now, daghan kaayo mi differences..but it is making us love each other more. Diha man nimo makita if willing mo-change ang imong partner gud just for u...while if pareha mo wala na juy changes and improvements nga mahitabo.

Quarrels and misunderstandings would make your relationship stronger if you know how to handle it... There should be a balance...so ug pareho mo wa nay maka-weigh sa things... dili sad tanang similarities maayo like being short-tempered and ma-pride diba.

[kitine]

it has to be balanced... having the same likes is ok but mawala man inyung individuality... we will never as in NEVER be the same.. mao na if sobra ra ka ka parehas tanan BORING na kaayu na.. mas maayu nang naay variance para naay spice ug naay lalis ginagmay.. ehehe

[reginakrys]

hmm.. nay common interests, but naa pud lahi.. not really opposite jud ug attitude..

[THE KID]

depende ras pag sinabtanay...opposite mi sa akong uyab sauna...pero mo work out ra......

[anjerika]

i don't agree with the question. hehehe peace TS...

for me, it's how you settle the differences or similarities - your level of understanding, love, maturity and patience that's going to make the relationship smooth sailing. naks. hehehe.

coz even if magkasinabot mo because of the similarities or if naa moy differences (which might/might not work against the relationship), there will always be conflicts, arguments, misunderstandings and friction and if ma pride ang duha, or worse complacent or passive ang duha, aw naa nana sa couple, diha nana daugon kung mu last ba jud ang relationship... hehe

balance the boat! para dili malunod. hehe.


but to answer your question, according to psychologists mga same attitude daw mag last longer. dunno with them. hehehe.

[ronchiejames]

same or opposite really doesnt matter... what matters is are you able to accept each others' differences... and how much change both of you are to commit to make the relationship work.

Keyword: Acceptance and Compromise

[buzz]

depende ra na nilang duha if how they manage it ..................

[kolot182]

kung same attitude kng magkaanam ug kadugay mgkaanam sd ka boring. kng opposite magkadugay mgkanindot ky madugay na mkaadjst naman mo. unya mausab na sd inyo batasan mahimo na mong same attitude. weeeeeeeeee....

[Insanitarium]

We look for people who complement us, not who supplement us.

Pero seriously, opposites do attract. But people never really click if they have nothing in common.

Ako kay bata-bataun jud ko. Bubbly, hilig magjoke with friends. Eccentric, salbahes, libakera, sapoton, prideful, brutal pero naa man jud naay pagkabuotan an usa ka tao bisan muclaim nga maldito/maldita. Makabantay ko nga people who have interest in me are the mature-ish, bubbly, joker (and chubby) type... naay pagkapeople pleaser (so hate that part sa tao), nice, gentleman, generous (annoying in the long run lay abusadohon sa lain tao). They were the types of people to take the initiative when mag-away. Silay mosorry dayon, mangayo pasaylo, manghatag gifts para pasayloon. Mao nay common points nila. One reason lang jud nga wala ko ni accept sa ila kay inig reject nimo, mupatuo sad. Dili na mag 2nd attempt or muattempt ug persuade. Murag irong gikasab-an. They didn't have that much sense of pride or confidence in themselves. Usa ra jud exception sa ila. Ang baga ug nawng. Mabuwisit nalang ko ug cge ug reject pero several times mapersuade nalang sad ko kay grabeh naman kaau ug methods to persuade.