How do you control jealousy?

[eamarac]

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Whenever i do get jealous i would tell him straight, i would explain why i feel that way but i don't nag. I hate it! We usually end up in discussion but i don't let my jealousy eat me up it will only drain my energy and he won't let me. Good thing about my partner is his mature enough to understand and apologize if he did something wrong. storyahan lng gyd ug tarong, di mg walk out ug mg relax pra mka think ug sakto ug di mg basol sa mga na bitawan na mga salita

[d!orj]

inhale, exhale den buga ug kayo,,,heheh btaw,,hmm everytime i get jelly,,i just stay quite as possible as i can,,pero if li najud mada ug pa silent effect mu buga najud ko,,hehe i will tell her na ani ato,,xplain everything why..she knows it already if maglain na akong ginhawa,,my best remedy is to express it,,it can calm my nerves if magka talk najud mi,,

[wenlove24]

i am afraid i have lost my battles sis..

thank you so much.. i envy your strength..

it wont be long now..

as a chess player.. i know when a game is lost long before it has actually ended in defeat..

life is just a game of chess..

but unlike a game.. life is just played once.

yes.. it wont be long now.. and i am so scared..

a life lived without love is a tragedy..

and i do not want to live in such!

~There is only one kind of love but it has a thousand imitations.~

the major cause of your troubles is deeply rooted from childhood. maybe if you studied psychology you would understand why men behave in such a way. maybe you didn't receive much love as a child from your parent/s. this is just my opinion. you could absolutely seek help from a life coach or relationship counselor or stay in touch with your friends and try to listen to good ideas. prayer definitely helps.

Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

[flowers4maegan]

kapoy naman ug cge ug selos uie....kapoi jd ikw na mismo ang nagbuhat ug dalan nga matuok imo uyab...labi na sa mga ubang mga lalaki nga di ganahan selosan sa ila mga gipangbuhat like flirting.........hhee

[flowers4maegan]

ako dli jd ko kakontrol sa ako selos..tanan buhaton nako para mwala ako selos, peur dli jd mawala....murag dli na lng jd nako ifocus ako self sa ako uyab para dli kau ko magcge ug huna huna nia..in that way dli na kau ko magselos.

[flowers4maegan]

just remember nothing and no one last in this world...

I used to be where you are right now, and I used to feel that way before my ex and I parted ways.. 4 years down the drain... .back then I used to think she was my ALL... and when we broke up.. I was the one who was affected and hurt too much...

Just remember bro.. no matter how many times we control our destiny.. we really can't control it.. No matter how long you tied the noose on your gf.. if fate whilst that your not for each other than your NOT.. plain and simple..

You just have to let your gf be where and what she wants to be with her life.. Jealousy begets possesiveness.. and being possessive can eat not you alone but your partner as well...

I am in an LDR state as well, and just like you.. I respect my gf's privacy and state much as she respects mine.. give and take and just establish an open channel of communication to her.

I told my gf before she left out from the country that whatever happens, if we're not going to end as WE, then we should be honest to tell that this might be the end of the line already..

I'm not sure if I am prepared for that day, if Fate and destiny would decide that we would not work out. But at least I am gearing for any eventualities and hurt if that day might come.

Do remember that even the married people gets separated, nothing is sure in this life bro...

Again...

Don't let the small embers of jealousy grow into an uncontrollable fire to yourself.. learn to douse it off before it can consume your relationship....

sure this hit me..naigo ko...

[GuyOfYourDreams]

dont give too much so that you'll not expect too much.

[CARLOS RIVERA jr.]

mag work ka ayaw cge ug kuyog sa imo uyab ug control ur self

[Darna]

natural ra cguro nang mgselos sa pero ayaw lng palabihi ug ibutang sa Lugar


d mn nko ipakita ug mgselos ko ipaagi lng ug joke

[nilbud]

maybe f kinsa ang seloso or selosa og maau maao na cla nagmake og bad hehe