How do you control jealousy?

[Monmyhand]

and life, like the game of chess, is controlled by you alone. you may be good at it or not, but chances of victory and defeat is equal. for as long as you still are not in checkmate, naa panay chance. hehe. you move the pieces. you decide which moves to make and even decide how you want to feel. control emotions and not the other way around. sometimes it's better giving up how you feel for the sake of the one you love rather than in the process let yourself give in and lose your love in the end. i'm through with jealousy, but im very quick to anger. something i'm trying hard to control. each one of us has their own battles, mostly personal. and that's the biggest thing we need to improve, coz when we improve ourselves, we too affect our relationships. hehe.

ge lang anj.. thank you again for the thoughts and advise..

today.. valentines day...

she left me..

the pain is unbearable..

[mlnsgbn]

Jealousy is a sign of insecurities

[icon_king]

kani ingon ani nindot paka ayo ni kay uyab paman mu pero maabot ra ang panahon nganu ako man tawn ni gi selosan ug maayo. Premero rana sya brod. awa ug magpuyo namu sa usa ka balay makakita naka sa difference, kana imu selos magkatawa ra nya ka ug huna huna ana.

the girl is your world.... kana ug imu na ipahibaw sa emung uyab. sigurado gyud ko mu gara na ug samot. naa byay uban babae sadista kaayo ganahan sila mu suffer ilang partner.

daghan babae brod. dili gyud mahurot. sakto pod ila gi ingon nga make yourself busy. do something different. kay basin BASA na kaayo imung moves sa imu GF. Ganahan bya kaayo na ang mga girls gukuron. Pero ug di naka mugukod ug usbon nimu imung style then just maybe she would be wondering whats with you. kana cguro panahuna sya na ang mag selos napod nimu

[Monmyhand]

the girl is your world.... kana ug imu na ipahibaw sa emung uyab.

YES... she is my life bro..

as in love is life..

not a cliche.. but reality

[Monmyhand]

Jealousy is a sign of insecurities

thank you for reminding me of that..

maningkamot lang ko to correct myself gyud...

[flowers4maegan]

you have two eyes, right?
so one is for your girl, and the other one is for your interest other than your girl........

[Blackjellybean27]

used to burst out with jealousy at my bf. then i noticed that our fights were getting really bad and out of hand because of my constant jealousy and being super possessive. know what i did? just controlled myself. whenever i feel that green monster lurking around, i just take a deep breath and concentrate on something else. super hard to do! and guess what, there's this girl i'm super duper selos because she keeps on texting my boif and i have her number for over a year now. i'm so proud of myself because i didn't do anything. hehe. i never texted her anything bad, never even tried to call her. whew! heavy control LOLz

[bowee]

just remember nothing and no one last in this world...

I used to be where you are right now, and I used to feel that way before my ex and I parted ways.. 4 years down the drain... .back then I used to think she was my ALL... and when we broke up.. I was the one who was affected and hurt too much...

Just remember bro.. no matter how many times we control our destiny.. we really can't control it.. No matter how long you tied the noose on your gf.. if fate whilst that your not for each other than your NOT.. plain and simple..

You just have to let your gf be where and what she wants to be with her life.. Jealousy begets possesiveness.. and being possessive can eat not you alone but your partner as well...

I am in an LDR state as well, and just like you.. I respect my gf's privacy and state much as she respects mine.. give and take and just establish an open channel of communication to her.

I told my gf before she left out from the country that whatever happens, if we're not going to end as WE, then we should be honest to tell that this might be the end of the line already..

I'm not sure if I am prepared for that day, if Fate and destiny would decide that we would not work out. But at least I am gearing for any eventualities and hurt if that day might come.

Do remember that even the married people gets separated, nothing is sure in this life bro...

Again...

Don't let the small embers of jealousy grow into an uncontrollable fire to yourself.. learn to douse it off before it can consume your relationship....

[icon_king]

YES... she is my life bro..

as in love is life..

not a cliche.. but reality

believe me there are a lot of girls out there... you need to think a thousand times if she is worth it gyud. what makes her the love of your life.

[rAiNe_]

if mag selos ko mag selos jud ko..
i would not keet it.. pero thats it only.. sultihan ra tika nag selos ko
di ko mang hilabot nah sa tawo nga ako gi selosan