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[d_m00n_u]

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bro.. sorry to be rude ha.. but a year doesnt always mean she's already serious.. thats why its always better to keep guard ur emotions while everything is still unclear.. set ur mind ug klaro najud kay faet raba jud kaau.. dili lalim...

basi.. u don't meet her expectation.. well.. it means she doesn't meet urs too..

[d_m00n_u]

to avoid love problems..

we shud keep guard of our emotions... dili padala sa tama dayon ba.. unless everything is cleared.

dili lalim bya ning mamroblema ta nila.. nya sila wa jud maproblema nato..


for a start.. make sure u don't give full emotions dayon.. kay ikaw ra jud lugi...

better gani if mahimo... no emotions involved usa... no commitment.. just enjoy the moment.. then later on... decide... i believe the damn thing called love also involved decision..not just feeling..

lami mainlove... but when u decide to love na jud.. thens this is what matter most..

[ronna]

may tama ka.. demunyu! :mrgreen:

nagmahay man gani ko nagpadala kos tama.
may gani nihuwas rasad, inum ra kape. eheheh

[ronna]

kewrek ka na naman.... gosh! no ka ba?
im starting to like you nah. hahhaha

[clive]

hi gud pm ninyo tanan..... juz want to have some advice...

mao ni ang sitwasyon christian ko nya ako gf kay muslim, i love her then mao pud cya sa akoa pero conflict man amo religion, she want me to convert to islam, but i dont like to change religion, cya pud samot na nga dili kay lisod kaau sa ilaha kay babae pa gud. dont know wat to do..... dont want to lose her! Were planning to start our own family pero dli me puede makasal until naa usa sa amoa mo convert…. She told me ok dli ko mag pa convert pero ang religion sa among anak will be islam daw…. then I said dli sad puede na kay ganahan pud ko na christian ghapon cla... (TNT me karon).

[if_i_aint_got_u]

ana jud na... everything change bsan pa ang feeling...!
yaw kabalaka... naa pa kow! hehehehe....peace

[edgeknife]

kung binuangan ra ka sa imo gril, dump her. don't worry, daghan pa babaye sa kalibutan.

[ReconGunny]

pretty difficult gyud na imo situation pre... ive met a lot of peeps kay mindanao man ko work nga parehas ug situation nmo..

lisod na sya especially TNT p gyud mo.. what would be the reaction of both families kung mahibaw.an? ang nahitabo sa akong friends nagbuwag nalng cla or risk nga ma alienate sila sa ilang isig ka pamilya... lisod man gud ni kontrahun ang family gud..

pero if open minded inyong mga pamilya... then why mag TNT... lisod gyud kaayu na..

hope ma settle nmo na.. hay gugma... gud luck pre.. and i mean it..

[titaniumbox]

there you go, naa ra man diay na, "we never met personally".

how can you expect too much from someone you have'nt even met yet?

and you said "everything was real to me" ---- but you did not even think that your relationship was virtual, mao ganing gitawag ug virtual kay dili real.

eventhough other people have been successful at relationships based on internet chat and text, but still you don't know who's beside her everytime she's texting you.

im so attached and in love to her.. love is blind jud bah..haaayyy..

[titaniumbox]

@titaniumbox:

YJOB makes sense.. for you, maybe the relationship is real but for her it's the other way around.. you might be thinking she was plain serious with you but now she's playing around with her "other" textmates..

you'll never know what's on the real picture dude unless of course you guys have been "DATING" for quite sometime.. and with meeting personally comes impressions that are far more sensitive to the senses rather than reading and hearing words..

what's my point? jumping into this kind of relationship dude isn't worth putting the serious side of it.. TAKE NOTE, this would only apply to romantic relationships.. of course, there's absolutely nothing wrong if you guys were only friends and take her seriously
------->AS A FRIEND AND NOT A LOVER..

thanks for your insights.. your point well taken