palihug, TAMBAGI ko... tabang intawn

[masterjanuarius]

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It is the best time to pack your things and live on your own ... you can always help her even if you are out of your house (or, ship her out of the country to your dad, so you will be alone in your house)... I hope you will be successful in your love relationship; being a battered child, I mean, emotionally, you are carrying a heavy load of hurts and deep anger ... and it will always be there, creating havoc unless processed by a professional therapist.

[kelv]

********* pd imong mama TS sa imong plano na mobalhin ka ug balay. tell her something like this pra di malain imong mama: (of course, ayaw lng pd pinasuko pgka sulti pra dli mo magAway na pd)

"wa mn koy kalagot nimo ma. di lng jud ko gnahan ba na imo kung butAn sa akong gnhan buhaton...blah blah blah..." ikaw na bahala sa sumpay. hehehe

[cjmagowan]

ayawg layas.. instead confront her until such time nga cya nay mu.surrender nmo....

don't make her understand every bit of word that ur saying... make her realize intead and it's not ur responsibility to take care of your parents btw. tuo kaman anang storya nga "utang kabubut-on"... it's a traditional excuse exercised by most filipinos in order to lure someone into their control. Providing you proper education was ur parents responsibility and returning ur favor in them is an option for you and it's up to you if you are going to help them or not in the future since sooner or later you are going to have a family on your own. make her realize that.

[jOwEy cEe]

@neigyl_noval: i have tryd #1 lots of times, ddnt work @ ol. i never want to do #2, not at ds moment. i am ryt now 10% in #3. d only thng holding me back is my dad. i hav d best boyfriend ryt nw who's always der everytym we hav a fyt wd my mom. but bein engaged is not yet an option 4 us. i am always, always doin #4. n i had done #5 ever since i started working. either she says it's too small or it's not compared to wat i wud b earning abroad. ana kalisod akong life.

[jOwEy cEe]

@masterjanuarius: i'm actually lucky to have a good guy beside me. bt sometimes, not being able to control my life makes me a control freak over r relationship. wch is also affected bcoz of d thngs i deal with @ home.

[jOwEy cEe]

@kelv: mao lagi. katong sa among away n-ana ko nya lami na kaau ilayas. ana man sad cya layas daw. toink.

[jOwEy cEe]

@cjmagowan: i agree. dats y sometimes i envy d western culture. dey let der kids do what dey want n not asking 4 anythng n return bcz dey hav already saved up for retirement. oh well. ana btaw one time akong mama na basin daw magminyo nko den ako na daw cla kalimtan. hay... even that she controls. wch is y i am so hopeless.

[neigyl_noval]

@neigyl_noval: i have tryd #1 lots of times, ddnt work @ ol. i never want to do #2, not at ds moment. i am ryt now 10% in #3. d only thng holding me back is my dad. i hav d best boyfriend ryt nw who's always der everytym we hav a fyt wd my mom. but bein engaged is not yet an option 4 us. i am always, always doin #4. n i had done #5 ever since i started working. either she says it's too small or it's not compared to wat i wud b earning abroad. ana kalisod akong life.

Sultii nlng siguro imung mama nga kung basin mulayas ka kay d naka ka-igwanta.

[kelv]

aws. heheh...ayaw nang sa away esingit imong gusto esulti sa imong mama. ky sa away, pride na ang mangibabaw anah ug di na kahibaw mosabot ang tawo. have a heart to heart talk with her, ug try to be calm. kanang walay dakoay ug tingog. nindot ni karong valentines. date mo sa imong mama daun istorya mo bahin anah na butang.

[Undone23]

Ing-ana sad ko.. ganahan na ako parents mag abroad na as a nurse daun naa ko call center na landing...But for me you have to do what you love, after all life is short its like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once. So Break the rules sometimes, Forgive quickly,Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off
the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

If d naka happy living with your mom. Talk to her nga mag kaugalingon naka.. anyway mabuhi naman kha ka.. D mana magoul imo papa.. ma proud noun na madugay kong maka stand naka on your own... basta yaw lang pag pabadlong... heheh