If you want to keep the relationship...will you confess or not?

[if_i_aint_got_u]

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better confess mentras sau pa... just be prepare watever da outcome... either love or leave....

[if_i_aint_got_u]

better confess mentras sau pa... just be prepare watever da outcome... either love or leave....

[d_m00n_u]

confess.. and then it will be used against you.. sometimes.. instead of making up.. confessions results to breakup...

this is the fact of life.. when people get hurt.. they tend to forget about love... and hate, instead of forgiving their partner.. specially if its something about betrayal...

why not forever hold your silence and swear not to do it again?


as they say.. what u don't know won't hurt you.. it also applies to ur partner.

if ur ready to accept the risk of losing ur partner.. then confession is for you...

but if not.. then just be silent and never ever do it again..

[yuki1981]

yuki1981,

Hmmm.... Why the hesitation?
Is it coz you're just afraid he'd get mad & blast at you?
Or is it coz you feel guilty coz you have developed feelings for the guy you dated?

Four years of relationship is NO joke! Some even barely survive for a month or two.
Now, would you rather trade those 4 yrs for someone you barely (i suppose) even know?

hera_82,

uhmm...it's the other way around. it was my x-bf who cheated not me. anyway, you're right. 4 year-relationship is NO joke esp. cya ako 1st bf. even my family thought kami na jud. but then, everything is unpredictable. karon ako na lng gi-think na everything happens for a reason....

"God only takes away when He has something better to give"...

[Streetcar]

"God only takes away when He has something better to give"...

I like this quote. Very hopeful and inspiring. Everything happens for a reason and for everything there is a season. That means, proper timing is everything. All i can add about confessing or not is this .....for a man or woman to confess, if it makes you feel any better then confess.

[hera_82]

hera_82,

uhmm...it's the other way around. it was my x-bf who cheated not me. anyway, you're right. 4 year-relationship is NO joke esp. cya ako 1st bf. even my family thought kami na jud. but then, everything is unpredictable. karon ako na lng gi-think na everything happens for a reason....

"God only takes away when He has something better to give"...

Well, it's still gonna be you who knows better...
I hope everything will turn out fine between you & the guy. :mrgreen:

[evs]

relationship based on lies don't last long, sooner or later it will catch up on you. so tell the truth, and live with the consequences, you'll never know he might forgive you.

[titaniumbox]

the truth would set you free.. you can't keep hiding something forever..sooner or late it would come out.. plus, TRUST is very important in a relationship.. your guilt would surely hunt you or your partner would always doubt you.. mag permi na hinuon mo away ana..

[GOKOU]

confess lang.. pro date ra man kaha na? wla man kaha lain gibuhat?

[kyuusai]

confess. perhaps you'll be even more loved because of it and because of your honesty?