BE ATTRACTIVE: Surround Yourself with Winners

[dmelsie]

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true/real losers are the ones who gave up.

exactly, a shot you did not make is a 100% miss

true/real losers the ones who committed suicide.

nope they are not exactly losers, sila lang ang mga taw nga naay psychological problem in the first place
thats why dili sila ka cope sa stress given by a certain problem mao mo arrive dayon og suicide

ang mga losers kana wala pa gane, niatras na dayon hehehehe

naa baya winners, losers, and whiners hehehehehe

[mik0y]

but sir mikoy as for myself lang ha i prefer to be surrounded with different types and kinds of people
but the highest percentage are the one's we can say winners

kay if klase klase kag maka deal na taw mas ma enhance more imong social skills
base sa experience nako man gud, sigi na ko balhin balhin boarding house hihihihi

niya mostly sa mga ka boardmates kay matinga sila nga wala pa gane ko 1 month nag stay diha
kaila na tanan nako halos mga istambay hihihihi, suya lage sila kay init daw tinan awan mga tambay nila, niya ako kay mag apir-apir pa, tap tap pa sa abaga hahahaha

niya naa sad mo anha mga kaila nako maka ingon ka if makita naa gyud pod na achieve sa life

Being friendly doesn't necessarily mean you're hanging out with them.

You can be friends with "tambays", but are you one of them?

Are you regularly hangin' out with them?

If yes, why?

In my case, I used to hang out with them as well. Reason? I used to play a lot of basketball back in the day. And the best players in our hood were the tambays.

We were 2 time champions that time by the way.

Try to LOOK BEYOND bro.

[mik0y]

but it's so hard not to be a loser
there are too many challenges along the way that will make you feel like quitting.

Again, try to LOOK BEYOND.

Quitting doesn't necessarily make you a loser.

This is a different topic, but sometimes, you have to take care of your self.

It's always two sides of the same coin. There are times that quitting makes you a winner 'coz you're humble enough to accept that you can't do it anymore.

It's all about SELF CARE.

And caring for one's self doesn't make you lose, you only win.

Again, try to LOOK BEYOND guys.

[noel_llapa]

it's ideal, i guess, but most of the time, we are not in a position to choose the people around us. for instance if you think your entire family are a bunch of losers, would you walk away from them? in the first place, it's not that easy to categorize people as losers, or in another way around, it's too easy to categorize people as losers, especially if you don't particularly like them. your office mate may be an incorrigible gossip and a chronic complainer, and it would be all too easy to brand him with the L word not knowing that he's also a hardworking father and a loving husband.

that said, the most successful people are not those who incessantly rub elbows with the elite, the best and the brightest and get along with nicest, but those who could deal and learn from all types of people, with all types of personalities; those who could draw wisdom from the dumbest classmate, those who could squeeze kindness from the meanest and blackhearted of office mates, those who could find potential in the most stubborn and lazy child. im not saying that we should all be Jesuses and try to reform the prostitutes and the tax-collectors, but let us simply make the most out of the people around us, losers and winners alike.

[AntitaniC]

I don't agree to this...

this statements has its own flaws...

1.)"Losers are people who are narrow minded and judge anyone right away…"

Who are we to judge what makes a man happy? you all agree losers are like this and like that.... Does that mean you all losers too? coz your judging already.... what makes you different from them?

2.)"Losers are needy and insecure people…" most of you are working right? you all need money to cope your very need...... does that make you losers too?

and some more LOSERS is bla bla over there.... I think you all get the point...

there are 2 types of person in this world.... Those who admits that they are hypocrites and those who pretend they are not......

My point is...

I'd rather not judge people.... of what they do with their lives. because they own it... it's there choice...
and it's really up the person to cling to what types of person they think can satisfy their social needs....
don't blame others because of what you are.....

YOU CHOOSE YOUR OWN FRIENDS.... nobody is forcing you to join.... it's your own choice...
you can choose to join and change what is not right... or if they don't want to... just leave it be....
who are we to say our group is the perfect one? when nobody is really perfect...

Even if you're smart, that doesn't mean you better that those who are not.... coz I'm sure they know something even the smart geeks cant think of...

and besides... you can never tell if you're doing good when those people who does bad things doesn't exist.... if all people are good.... than there's no good at all....

[mik0y]

Again, LOOK BEYOND.

What I'm trying to point out is...

CHOOSE THE GROUPS YOU'RE HANGING OUT WITH.

Avoid toxic and negative people.

It's the same as you telling your children/friends/relatives/loved ones to avoid certain types of people.

Again, LOOK BEYOND.

By the way, needy is defined as demanding or needing attention, affection, or reassurance to an EXCESSIVE DEGREE.