If you want to keep the relationship...will you confess or not?

[jugs_06]

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i can very much relate to the thread starter..

just one important word to keep in mind:

CONFESS.

i don't really see any reason why you'd wanna hide from your bf/gf, unless of course you have a low self-esteem and you're afraid of the consequences..

[friendly amiga :-)]

confess jed ky f u wanna either hide or let it be hidden from u,
same story u will still hurt or be hurt,
it may not be now/@ present but still it will hurt ...
mas worst mn jed for me kn dugay ra diay ko "gibakakan" ..
so the feeling's the same w/ d partner na "gibakakan" nako..
& if u'll confess it, yes somebody might be hurt but it will set you both free :mrgreen:

[maia_79]

confess. there's no point being with someone you can't come clean with for the rest of your life (if mag minyo gyud mo).

in the end, nara man gyud na ninyo duha if you'd still want to keep the relationship. at least walay mga tinaguan.

[sheeshcute]

* Confess na lang gyud mintras sayo pa. Murag mo samot ka dako kung siya ang makahibalo thru other people kaysa ikaw ang mo sulti voluntarily niya about sa nahitabo. Basi kung lain tawo mo sumbong niya, ma dugangan hinuon, imbis nga hold hands ra, mo ingon niya nga nag kiss na mo.

[crinkle]

you can always choose to stay silent and not say a thing to your partner. perhaps,things would seem "normal" and not bother you at all. but the possibility of getting caught or your partner discovering that mischievous deed lurks and even your conscience will not stop haunting you.

so it's your choice.

confession = possibility of a break up or maybe, just maybe be forgiven
silence = possibly get caught and an annoying voice in your head or keep it til you get your grave

[yuki1981]

what if this happens to married couple? If the one who cheated still wanted to keep the relationship...would it be better to hide it? or confess?

[yuki1981]

i can very much relate to the thread starter..

just one important word to keep in mind:

CONFESS.

i don't really see any reason why you'd wanna hide from your bf/gf, unless of course you have a low self-esteem and you're afraid of the consequences..

nagbuwag jud mo?

[hera_82]

Guyzzzz...

---4-yr serious bf/gf relationship...
---long distance for a year (milangyaw ang usa ka tawo sa lain lugar para makatigum kay para magminyo na)....
---unya na-tempt ang usa ka tawo and dated somebody else but still says "i love u"...

unsa ba jud? if you still love the person,

will you confess?
kay honest lang jud ka

or just keep it a secret? he/she won't know anyway kay layo kaayo mo....

yuki1981,

Hmmm.... Why the hesitation?
Is it coz you're just afraid he'd get mad & blast at you?
Or is it coz you feel guilty coz you have developed feelings for the guy you dated?

But for whatever reason, I suggest you tell your boyfriend. Just be honest. It would be better for the information to come from you rather than him hearing it from other people. Lesser injury na cya for your boyfriend.
For couples who are far from each other, normal lang man na magkinahanglan ta og company. And since your partner is not there with you, you tend to turn on other people. But if you know that your conscience is clean & you know it was just a friendly date, then there's no need to be guilty of that incident.

BUT~! how many times have you been seeing this guy? If it's more than once, then it's time to re-evaluate your feelings, girl! Ask, what is he in your life? Aren't you just lonely?

You said you still say 'i love you' to your boyfriend. But the question is, do you still mean it?
Four years of relationship is NO joke! Some even barely survive for a month or two.
Now, would you rather trade those 4 yrs for someone you barely (i suppose) even know?


Think those over, decide on your emotions, & tell your boyfriend ASAP.
Be fair to him. He deserves to know. Ayt? :mrgreen:

[friendly amiga :-)]

confess it will set you free

[WinFlo]

confess. kung ako ang nakasala, i'd rather tell the person the truth para makatulog ko ug tarong kay sigurado man jud nga ma bother ko sa ako conscience. and if it's the other person, i still expect him to confess and tell me the truth. if he's really sorry and won't do it again, then pasaylo-on naku siya.

naa man jud na mga temptations sa relationship, especially kung long distance relationship, sungogon ka ug samot. and some people are just weak that they can't resist it.

i remembered this quote from my name is earl: "when someone you love tells the truth and they are sorry, you forgive them"