WHAT IF pinangga kaayo ka sa usa ka tao pero irresponsible xa....

[xxvvxx01]

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Way bo-ot na xa
Immature
Walay sense of Reality
So therefore undang
Unless you want to end up crying

Then at the end don't say we didn't warn you

[redscar]

pero ok ra man sad guro f ana ang situation...parehas sa ako parents before...when we were still young...wa jd guts ako papa ngita work or dli sad gud xa ganahan naai boss...and very irresponsible jud coz aside nga wai work sugarol pa jud..pero kung luv sa family, luv sa anak, very protectiv jud xa...pinangga jud me....cge lang to cila away sa ako mother pero and nakapastrengthen lang gud sa ila bond is ang luv...and later on na realize sad sa ako mother na wat f naa work ako father then daghan xa money naa man sad tendency na magbisyo xa ug babye labi na malayo xa sa ako mother...just like wat happend to my uncle and auntie....affected pa ang ila mga anak...they cud have the money and the thngs they wanted to have...pero naunsa raman gehapon ila puyo...but ma change raman gehapon ang tawo...pag hiskul na naku, napilitan na jud xa ngita work maski pwerte gamaya sweldo...agwanta ra jud xa...ki cge man tambagan sa ako mama .cge gud ampo ako mama mausab xa...heheh...bitaw ampo ra jud makapausab ana niya.....hhehehe...

hala maka-relate lagi ko ani sis... hmmm i guess medjo nakamata ko ani dah pagbasa nako. about a year plus nako wa work coz i hav to be there sa ako sick na parent and naglisud nako pud madawat sa nindot na companies kay dugay na unemployed (im stil 24). cge rapud ko casino pro i treat it as a job/sport(nothing too serious or big deal) coz inborn man gyud ko naa talent gud, i guess "swerte" sa games and sugal gud so i just took advantage ana na fact coz i know dako pud cxa tabang sako and everyone around me if cge ko daug everyday especially na wa pako work, financially speaking lang. pro it never came into me na sobra man, coz i always hav control in myself in anything.

pro unfortunately my long time ex-girl left me for the same reason pd, coz she cudnt understand the situation im in (she never cared to talk it over with me). i have this thought man gud na having a job is not everything, i mean i preferred business especially ato na time coz i know its alot better financially and time-wise i can adjust gyud pra il be there for her na empleyado.

pero ani lang ang ending line ai... "di nako kay puro raman gud ka "swerte2x". kasagaran gyud di nana uso ang "labing2 bahalag saging" ron panahona.

oh well... to @TS, all i can say is mas maau gyud if they talk it over gyud as in tiluka gyud ever word na kailangan to say. coz sa akong opinion, only "understanding" could change everything in a situation like this. pro i know that most people/men this days sa ani na situation kay ang reason why di mutrabaho kay tapul and irresponsable gyud. sa akong part pud, though im dealing with "gambling" too much, ako lang g-gamit akong gifted talents para tabangan akong self and i guess maging resourceful especially sa kalisud sa life even though its "something" na nakaguba sa life sa kadaghanan.

pro i am well aware na dli panglongterm ako buhat, and thats why wa nakoy guts mangitag pares ron. hehe

so mao na cxa, hope this helps. if di gyud mada, mas maau gyud byaan kung wa sad au.

[touch_me_not]

btaw sad noh...faeta pod btaw ng d kabalu mangitag panginabuhian wui...wa joi lami....heheh..makasapot man gani ng wa tai kwarta ma short tas ato budget nga single pa tah....samot na guro ug menyo nah nya nana tay gebuhi...d jud makalabing ang saging...magcige tag bidli ana..heheh...

[eddcuesta]

f u r planning to marry d jud ni cya maayo nga partner unless u want to be d breadwinner & head of ur family. kuyaw bya sad ni ani nga situation coz kadugayan mawa man gud u respect 4 him & its a sad situation to be in esp if u will find somebody else later. just dont take him seriously & focus ur energy in improving urself, kita nmo... d more u will see d difference between u so d na lisod pag let go nya.

[pinkavaya]

hala uyy... pinangga ka niya if pinangga ka really then he will be at the point nga ma responsible for you

[rodx]

its a matter of communicating about this to him, this is something that you really can't decide for him...if you are in this uncomfortable situation then i believe you know what to do as a mature individual in a relationship and at the end of the day no one can really change anyone or decide for someone its all up to them to do these things

[reishoto]

ironic question. u can not care when u are irresponsible. if one is irresponsible, one is not caring, he either just needs somthing from u or u gi-sulay nimo pidpid sa iya. wahehhee..

it stops here...

[giogui2003]

ngano dili diay pwedi ang usa ka taw mo care ug usa ka butang ug gi take for granted niya ang ubang butang? think harder

wake up! it's not love it's foolishness... don't naive! wake up! love is never like that..

[muyi]

ironic question. u can not care when u are irresponsible. if one is irresponsible, one is not caring, he either just needs somthing from u or u gi-sulay nimo pidpid sa iya. wahehhee..

it stops here...

i agree...it should go hand in hand

[Cory1986]

talk to hime sis. dili jd ta mabuhi aning kalakiha sis. nindot pa na karon kay uyab pa mo and wala pa mo anak. if naa na, ambot nlang. diha na ang challenge. mahal au ang gatas doh!