Handling Worry
Worry serves a very useful function. It prods us to attend to some unresolved problem. Thus, it prevents us from becoming irresponsible individuals. The problem, however, is that worry is also the major source of human unhappiness. It robs us of sleep and of the capacity to be spontaneously cheerful. It makes life heavy and burdensome.
There are three factors that contribute to worry:
1. Fear – This is the root of worry. It is what makes worry unpleasant. If there is no fear, then it is a concern rather than a worry.
2. Unwholesome philosophy of life – When priorities and values are unclear, then a person will constantly encounter dilemmas in decision making. One becomes unwilling to let go of non-viable alternatives.
3. Ineffective problem-solving methods – There is lack of clarity as to what is the best method in dealing with a problem. The mind tends to be dissatisfied with what is being done about it.
The first factor, fear, has been dealt with earlier. The second – an unwholesome philosophy of life – will be discussed under “Clarification and Internalization of Values.” We shall presently deal with the third factor.
Handling Worry
Hereunder are steps which can eliminate the burden of worrying:
-From the Publications of the Theosophical Institute
-by Vicente Hao Chin Jr. President of the Theosophical Society in the Philippines