Walay dadaanay ug uyab.....what's the point

[moklo]

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Buntisi na bro aron ala nka problem... 10 Years taas na kaayo na for Uyab, lng padulong na sa buwag kay naay usa nga ma pul-an ninyo basin siya...

My advice is ihatod na sa venue dayun inig abot pakitaa ang iyang mga ka party nga full support ka sa imong GF dayun stay kadyot mga 5min. aron makaila nimo iayng mga friend, aron sad makasalig ka nila..

[rom69erz]

buntisan dayon biyaan klo? yaw tawn pud.

pila na ka higayon nag ingon ani imong gf TS?

[nijazared]

engna imo GF ts nga last nani...

naa naman xa bad record, tell her not to break her bad record!

[lejean]

I am a culprit of this statement "walay dad-anay uyab". Gonna share something to you para makasabot sad ka about this statement.

For years of organizing get-together or reunion with my hiskul friends for years, I always insist walay dad-anay uyab, yet naa jud mo likoy magdala jud... and this is the reason why that I have to set an example myself na wala'y dad-anay uyab sauna pa jud now bana nako it is because of the following reasons ever since pa ne:

1. ma op ang uyab (whether girl or boy), it is because naay mga happenings between the officemates and your gf na sila ra na lingaw, sila ray naka-experience, if naay others ngadto mag-tanga lang dili ka relate sa story.

2. magsige sipit2x sa uyab, naa sila own world... mao gani nang-laag mao mag-enjoy ang tanan unsaon pag-enjoy ga lain man sad ang usa gadala og uyab, dili na laag date na hinuon ang nahitabo.

let her be free for once and do everything she wanted and let her have fun on her own, with her officemates without being conscious sa yaha actions kay naay gabantay nya.

kato classmate naku hu happened to be my bff, told her always, wala'y dad-anay uyab and remind her always para di sya mgdala og samok og bad shot kaayo... kay it will create this tension or space between us (hiskul classmates) and the bf.

There is a time for that laag2x wherein mgdad-anay jud uyab para mag-ilhanay jud ba but i think this time around ganahan moha gf to break the record sa 10 years na magkuyog mo sinulog she wants it on her way.

it's not a trust issue or something fishy, just let her be happy for one day and be herself...

as for me? i always explain to my husband it's my highschool friends and seldom i see them, i just want to spend quality and bonding time with them without you being OP in the group. he understood but sometimes mag-doubt sya kay naay lalaki kuyog of which dili malikayan but as for me lako gibuhat sayup and ngtinarong i have nothing to be guilty about. besides once in a bluemoon rako mo laag with them...

final say, let her go with her officemates, do not be so KJ.... trust her this is the only thing you could give to her... yaw sad kaayo na ihatod ui klaro pud kaayo laka salig nya. palakwa sya iyaha ra not unless mo ingon sya ihatod ko para to meet my officemates, kana nuon but ikaw mo initiate na ihatod sya, it's a bad sign = you are not trusting her. mohatod nalang gane mahog ra na nekuyog ka nya the whole time.

reading the previous pages, naa'y bad record well... people do change you know... but if your instinct says something fishy jud and di ka mahimotang, then there is something going on.. in this case trust your instinct this will let you see the real thing and discover what is really going on...

[krone]

let's just hope so.

[walker]

TS, you are a techie... u know how to trust ur instinct on this one. ten years na gud mo. start looking around...just in case.

[emailroy2002]

di ka apilon nila kay ikaw ilang subject na ilang story2x hahaaha!

mao goru na ang rason... pasagdi nalang... sundoa nalang igkahuman outing nila... nya pangutana unsa ilang gi isturyaan hahaha!!

[anjerika]

kung akong uyab naay ingon ani nga affair nga way dad-anay og uyab ang sabot with the friends, wa koy mahimo ana but to trust him. for as long as the people he is going out with are good ones. honestly naay pagrigor sa utok gamay but i respect the common agreement of the group nga way dad-anay og uyab. not being KJ but ok ra nako if he would enjoy his moment with his friends as long as he knows how to behave. usa pa kung ubanon pud ko, ma OP ra ko and he would be obliged to entertain me, di na nuon siya malingaw with friends nga maoy tuyo niya sa pag join. we will never know unsa iyang buhaton ngadto, daotan ba o di but i choose not to stress myself with things that are beyond my control. however he may act, maayo man o dili, i trust that karma is an angel and a bitch that's gonna take care of him whatever may plan to do. so cheer up! hehehehehehe

[j3thro]

I do trust her, ang di lang nako ganahan kay gi away ko niya ug maayo para di lang ko maka kuyog, pero I thank you all sa nag post ug comments and I hope naa sad mo ma learn ani coz I know common kayu ni na issue.

my final point is I really don't like the idea. para dili ma op or dili maka kiat? and for me everyday is important so i can let her feel how much I love her coz you never know if tomorrow will come

[bowee]

i think your gf just wants a space from you bro.. girls sometimes can be bored of their bf.. though they don't like to tell you that straight face but sometimes a little bit a change of scenery or face can make them want you more later on...

it doesnt mean that because she doesnt want you to come along with her friends.. mag kiat kiat na dayon sila.... it just friend bonding lang gud... and if you trust your gf jud.. then Im sure you know that d jud ka nya ilisan... only an insecure person would think nga just because her bf kuyog2x sa iyang barkada.. mag flirt2x dayon ug lain guy... ..don't be too insecure of yourself lang.. if your secured with her? let her be where she wants to be... give her time to grow sad.. away from your side.. only then you would know that giving space in a relationship can sometimes be beneficial in nature..

because it would learn the virtue on how to miss that person in the long run if d kamo permi magkuyog kanunay