Walay dadaanay ug uyab.....what's the point

[BanshEe]

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ing.ana man pud mo boys diba?
di mo ganahan nga mag bantay inyo girls ninyo..
kung mag boys out mo.. diba?
we girls, in ana man pud mi..
kanang mag enjoy mi without thinking of other things..
but it will never mean nga naa nay something fishy..
if you say that, that will be a proof nga mag ing.ana pud ka..
so, dont think about that and tell her na lang to enjoy..

[nijazared]

if you always have that logic then sorry to say, it is simply downright twisted... no matter how much you are immersed in a world filled with temptations, you will never succumb to such nor be swayed if you have VALUES and FAITH in yourself... I pity the gf if the bf thinks of her like that. Meaning to say, ing ana ang calibre sa iya gf? If I were the gf, I'd be insulted.. morag naka minos ako bf kung ing ana iya pagtan-aw sa ako. Unsa tanan naka pantalon nalang, patulan nako? tsk tsk

kung ing-ana nalang inyo opinion sa inyo gfs, don't go into any relationship.. bottomline is you guys have TRUST ISSUES... wala pa gali, unhan pod ninyo lols

the LOGIC which you have stated as twisted has made me a happy camper for as long as I can remember, my partner understands me as what I am and this is what I have been for all my life, a guy who stays away from temptations to keep himself from making a mistake. Not all of us have that strong will to fend off temptations especially under the effect of alcohol...For us guys it is not that naka minus mi, we do trust our GF's, but if we find that the situation will turn out to be a risky one and there would be no way for us to bail our GF's out, then we take it to our own hands to protect our GF.
For guys like me who have been played before, there will always be that trauma and that's why it's hard for us to be put in such a situation as the TS is in right now. We'd rather prevent it as much as we can. There are just guys like me who will always believe that "prevention is better than cure" in most situations.

[beyee]

So sad for you bro.

The thought of having your gf in an imaginary "safety bubble" just to ward off from possible temptations.
I guess that's how we differ... a thin line difference of how a man and a woman think... however that wouldn't stop me from believing that it's a total crap of how a guy would "protect" their gfs from worst-case scenarios when in fact there are girls who can handle such sticky situations.

[nijazared]

So sad for you bro.

The thought of having your gf in an imaginary "safety bubble" just to ward off from possible temptations.
I guess that's how we differ... a thin line difference of how a man and a woman think... however that wouldn't stop me from believing that it's a total crap of how a guy would "protect" their gfs from worst-case scenarios when in fact there are girls who can handle such sticky situations.

Don't be sad, she is very happy to see me protect her and she does the same thing for me. We do not see it as a safety bubble but an extra precaution to make sure that no matter what happens we will always be able to protect each other.

She's no longer my GF but my wife. Remember, not all girls are like you. I myself who have seen girls who are straight and clean get down and dirty with alcohol. I myself know what alcohol can make you do. What is wrong with being safe? I'd rather be safe when Alcohol is taken into consideration. A mistake made within seconds can destroy a trust built for decades. You have utmost confidence in yourself and how you can handle yourself. But let me tell you, too much of something is never a good thing.

I agree with you though, there will always be a thin line difference between how a woman and a man thinks. You can never expect both to think the same, no, no two people can think alike, we are all born unique.

[krone]

Don't be sad, she is very happy to see me protect her and she does the same thing for me. We do not see it as a safety bubble but an extra precaution to make sure that no matter what happens we will always be able to protect each other.

She's no longer my GF but my wife. Remember, not all girls are like you. I myself who have seen girls who are straight and clean get down and dirty with alcohol. I myself know what alcohol can make you do. What is wrong with being safe? I'd rather be safe when Alcohol is taken into consideration. A mistake made within seconds can destroy a trust built for decades. You have utmost confidence in yourself and how you can handle yourself. But let me tell you, too much of something is never a good thing.

I agree with you though, there will always be a thin line difference between how a woman and a man thinks. You can never expect both to think the same, no, no two people can think alike, we are all born unique.

I agree with you..

[beyee]

I believe I've shared my POVs on the TS' dilemma more than enuff to get my message across to other peeps here.

Finally, I humbly thank walker and nijazared for a good exchange of POVs... first time I got mentally drained over a thread LOLs..

God bless TS.

[nijazared]

I believe I've shared my POVs on the TS' dilemma more than enuff to get my message across to other peeps here.

Finally, I humbly thank walker and nijazared for a good exchange of POVs... first time I got mentally drained over a thread LOLs..

God bless TS.

hehehe, don't be mentally drained, think of it as a way to help out people and who knows, you might be also helping them find out who they really are and what kind of person they really are...

@ TS we all expect to find out what your decision is soon, hopefully, all will turn out well

[cassiopeia]

she needs to take a breather. let her have some fun. sabot lang mo wai kiatay pag ayu. hahaha

[Mangium10]

haha! okei ra man na. basin hadluk xa na ma out of place ang uyab.

[jadestoner]

sa ako lng TS. ang issue ani kai trust man jud like what the other istoryans had said in your thread. depende man sad gud na sa daghan factors:
>kaila ba ka sa kuyog/officemates niya?
>naa ba xa close friend nga kuyog nga close sad nimo? (the type nga mu-bantay niya if something goes wrong)
>naa bah guy interested sa imo gf nga kuyog? (kani lami ni kumoton ang face.. hehehe)
>does ur gf have a track record nga mahubog nya dili straight ang decision making process.
....etc. as in daghan kaau.

pero the bottom line is this lng jud:
If ur gf really treasures ur relationship nga 10 years nah, she wont do anything stupid oi! i know when a person is under the influence kai mu-likoy man jud ang utok pero trust me, if gi-treasure jud ka niya, dili xa mu-succumb to the influence sa iya officemates. trust and pray istoryan. kaya na nimo. besides 10 years na mo oi! this is a good excercise of giving a bit of freedom. i know she'd do the same for you if she trusts you. hehehehe