Wo Ai Ni: Regarding Relationships with Chinese and Chinese-Filipinos

[friendly amiga :-)]

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btaw btaw oks jed :mrgreen: .. k n my case diay pgkahbw ako mom
mra naay nanguyab or bsn na involve nko na chinese papangitaon
nlng dw ko niya lain k lisod na bsn nya lng daw e-dscrimin8 ko sa family..
langga bya ko ako family d cla gnahan ma hurt pd ko n d long run..

saunz d malikayan mka friend or ma involve ta chinese wui..
bt not all jed naa pod nice ones in fairness


0.t. -- sori pow ako gmodify bt na quote diay mao nagsunod nlng ako post

[dicoy]

Pinoy ko pero daghan sad ko migo chinese... kasagaran jud ilang uyab kay chinese gurl pud... ana man jud cguro na labi na pure blooded chinese, mangita jud na ug chinese pud.... culture man cguro na nila oi.. ambot lang.. hehehe....

[nhoj]

hEHE..di tanan ing-ana oi..ako 75% chi bt ako parents di mana sila kabuot nko unsa or kinsa akong panguyaban, basta love lang nko, kung awayon sa akong family, ako pud mukontra sa family nko hahaha maona igo ra cla storya na mayta naay chinese blood but for me that's a culture way back the old times, it aint applicable these days...my 2 cents

[morning_jade]

Ingon akong friend...iyang chinese nga bf sa-una maniac daw.

[aGoi..]

it depends on the family man cguro. i havnt tried this ha but i went to a chinese school before so most of my friends are chinese and im pretty familiar of both the sad and happy stories.

bsta if ur having this kind of dilemma, first thing u gotta do is know about the family. his/her family might be really strict and u might be in some kind of trouble nya. for some, it can get really really frustrating. especially sa part sa chinese lover. BUT THEN, some chinese families are now open to that idea. so, it won't be really hard jud.

in the end, all that matters is that ur pure with ur intentions and that u are ready to prove urself to both the person u love and his/her family. if uve got these then im sure the family will accept u in due time. Goodluck! :mrgreen:

[maia_79]

a friend of mine -pure filipina- married a chinese guy. they were together for only 3 months when they decided to get married (dunno why gyud!). At first it was ok. But eventually, my friend would say nga nigawas na gyud ang insik nga batasan... they canbe very discriminating against filipinos... just the act of speaking in Chinese para dili makasabot ang uban taw is very rude ... you know sometimes maka ingon jud ka nga maypa manguli na sila sa China.. hehehe ... but i do have Chinese friends nga maayo ra pud ug batasan...

[pringhouls]

yes

[karlyn]

usually? hehehhe base lang sa ako mga kaila na pure chinese most of them mamiga jud ug lain..

[caspey]

mostly.. sagaran chinese guys uwagan jd.hehehe.. den sagaran pd chinese babae kay conservative dba? kana gibantayan jd sa ginikanan. so tendancy ana mamiga jd sa lain na babae. sa ako nabantayan especially among young chinese guys, lingaw2x sa cla uyab2 mga dli chinese den kn mumature na kana humanang kiat, mangita nag insik para seryosoon.

[bryanarzaga]

seeing how my heritage is and looking how extended my family is, ive made it as a lesson to myself