college love

[chikas]

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to the real people who have this real story... sorry if i have offended you posting this thread... my sincere and deepest apology to both friends... if ever you happened to read this with same story u can relate.. i'm just trying to help.. and i didn't mean anything wrong here...

[lScuml]

to the real people who have this real story... sorry if i have offended you posting this thread... my sincere and deepest apology to both friends... if ever you happened to read this with same story u can relate.. i'm just trying to help.. and i didn't mean anything wrong here...

I think your not helping them. Since they're not asking you to POST here. What you did was just to ruin their TRUST on you. If you will say your helping your guy friend, same thing. He's not asking you to post it here. If you want to help, then talk to both of them then set some time that both of them can talk.Not on POSTING their story here without any permission by both sides.

[apnalaema]

on my opinion, i think this person posting is just trying to help her guy friend to cope up and move on. and there's nothing wrong with it.

I think you should first read the whole damn thing if wats the purpose of this post before you say its not right.

I know chikas just tried to help but the deed is wrong.
Gihatagan ba siya ug right nga i-post ang ilang story diri then ask for some advices?
IScuml is right, what she did destroys her friends' trust to her.

[rAiNe_]

Since the beginning the relationship was bound to fail,the woman is so self centered
sacrificing what they shared just to attain something.
The BF should realize this beforehand, but it's not late to consider what is worthed
and what is not. She is definitely not worth an effort nor an apt recipient of something as
pure as love.
Simply he should forget her, she does not give a damn of what he feels.

check jud ni abot langit.

galibog ko ngano di pwede mag uyab2x..ana jud ni? ministry man kaha ni?
ni give up man ang girl niya in the first place palang.. the guy did understand her coz prolly he understood the girl na she needed it kanang mag leader sa ministry.. basi ang uyab sa girl pud kay dili pareha nila ug religion kay s aila ingon pa dili pwede mag uyab2x sa isisg ka memeber nimo..

sukwahi pud ni sa uban relihiyon nga dapat pareha jud nila ug religion ang ila mauyab.

[inFLAMESof_Death]

move on...
move on...
move on...
move on...
kana rajud balik2ka og sulti sa iya hangtud sa ma pul.an na cya nya maka move on najud... hehehe...

[kimleeKINO_choi]

on my opinion, i think this person posting is just trying to help her guy friend to cope up and move on. and there's nothing wrong with it.

I think you should first read the whole damn thing if wats the purpose of this post before you say its not right.

agree! ang highlighted words ang correct kaayo for me.

[jackson428]

you sacrifice what you both of you built for the benefit of the other? plus the guy doesnt have an assurance that once her thing is done they will be back together... i think the guy should accept and move on.. shes not worth it.. she was able to that.. what if they get back together and something comes along again for the girl? then history repeats itself again

[sHenZee03]

OT: Sometimes I find it quite ridiculous for religious organizations to prohibit relationships between members. Nobody can dictate the heart whom or not to love. I know that MOST people involved focus more on their personal relationships within the community rather than their service. Suppressing feelings will lead to hunger for freedom of expression. So in the end, they become two-faced members of their community.

OnTopic: We all know how hard it is to forgive those who have hurt us. But in time, we'll gradually heal and become more mature. When one is still suffering the pains of a sacrifice made in the name of love, no one around us will ever make sense and in that fragile moment, we are allowed to be nonsensical, too.

We have different ways in coping. He's vulnerable right now and will soon be on his own feet again because we're human and we work that way. Let him be but always let him know that you're there for him. Just let him cry his heart out because when he becomes exhausted, he'll be on the rebound in no time.

We are not in the position to say that she's not worth it because she was worth it all for him, somehow. It just didn't work out the way he must've expected things to be.

[kelv]

if you want your friend to move on, let him not think about that girl if possible.
its like if you want to quit smoking, don't put this in your mind: "I will not smoke anymore" <- coz ur still thinking about smoking. tell him to be busy so that he cannot think of that girl.

[Kassy Davvy]

paeta pud ana sa side sa guy uie... anyways, just give him something to be entertain with and just let him understand that it is part of love's journey . . .time would simply heal every wound and to accept the fact that everything has its reasons....GOD has bigger plans for you. . .