When you love someone, set them free?

[pnk_shadows]

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i'd set him free if i could feel he wants his freedom. i cant continue to put a leash on someone who doesnt want to be with me in the first place. even if i love him, i'll have to let him go even if it means getting hurt. loving should be selfless, otherwise it's greed...

[P-Chan]

there are no words to explain true love

[tikboy]

loving should be selfless, otherwise it's greed..


very well said gurl...

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[butterflyzia]

hmm... maka relate ko as in!! hehehe my boyfriend and i broke up 2 years ago but we still call each other baby until now. we broke up because we do not believe in long distance relationship and he has to leave our place.hmm maka sad and it is really painfull but it was all worth it. my boyfriend still loves me and has not found anyone to replace me hehehe in fact he still wants me back. yes, i want him back too but i want to be sure coz we are not getting any younger....

therefore i conclude that setting someone free is ok its a challenge and it will make the relationship stronger ....
pero still its a case to case basis

[jonz]

not at all kung love nimo and usa ka tao... make the best thing.. buhata tanan na butang na kaya nimo... not all the time kuyog mo always... f u lovvvve sumbody and she wnbe out in your life... let ask... let her.... f shel comeback... ok.. if not ... ok nlang.. happy ka nlang kung san cya happy...

[n0stALg|a]

i guess when u truly love someone u dont force urself on that person.. if he wants out of the relationship... if he's not happy w/ u anymore... i guess u've no other choice but to set the person free... rather than have the person w/ u and see them so unhappy.. ako?!?! id rather hurt myself like this than see the person i love so much so unhappy and hurtin w/ me... that'd be so unfair to the person.. i'd rather set him free.. besides if he's really meant for me... in the end i'd still have him... di bah?!?!

[ghill]

Yeah sometimes i agree with you carla but sometimes not. Most of us falling inlove making sacrifices in proposing for a nice relationship but all of a sudden you allow him/her to set him free. NONSENSE


@kiat_kaau_kusion_beh

masantos gyud ang mag anto kiat_kaau_kusion_beh

[P-Chan]

you can't hold on to a person very long and tightly... be brave...

[richard_pcTECH]

why did u set him free f u love him?
that is not tru!!!!!

[n0stALg|a]

granting ur partner loves u and u can feel it... but its juz that there are inconsistencies... and what if he/she has cheated or tried cheating on u once or twice before?!?! after u found out, normally, u'd wanna break up w/ him/her... but he/she begs u to stay and give the rel one more chance.. u love him/her so u give him/her another chance... things are ok for a while.. and then u find out again that he/she is cheating on u... would u still wanna stay in a relationship like this?!? would u still wanna love some1 like this?!? some1 who doesnt knoe how to give u what u deserve?! i believe in the saying that "dont make any1 a priority who only makes u an option!"

if he/she cant give me what im worth, then i dont see any reason for stayin in the rel.. i'd only end up bein bitter about myself for the times i've tried to change my partner... i'd end up a broken person... and i cant be that stupid to let my partner do that to me!!