A good thing you can have for having a seaman husby is financial. Of course you and your child/children could have a good to great financial status as we all know how much could a seaman get by simply being a seaman. But surely, you as a wife will suffer for the longing to see your husby as often as people do and your children will suffer for it as well. Most of the time, your seaman husby will not be there for you personally.