hello TS (thread starter). this is my first post since i became a member of this site. i felt your anguish and pain. your husband is surely a cheater. no cheater will admit that they cheat. bisag makita na nimo nga naghubo silang duha, he will surely deny it to the death. your situation now drains you. and it is not healthy para sa inyong mga anak. though your kids dili pa kasabot sa depth sa situation but they still feel the pains because bisag dili na nimo isulti, you are transferring these negative energies to them. di pa na nimo mahibaw an ang extent ani, but once managko na sila, diha nimo makita ang epekto. it can be nga sila sab ang mocheat or sila ang mahimong naa sa imong posisyon karon. they will conclude nga ok ra ang mocheat uy kay si mama gani mi ok raman nga mamiga si papa. do you want that to happen sa imong kids?
ang ako lang ma advice sa imo. stop following your husband. do not stoop to his level. if he is an idiot, do not be an idiot by snooping sa tanan niyang gibuhat.
upgrade your face value uy. just because you are married, dili na excuse nga magpalosyang lang ka. dont let your weight go high. do exercises, jog sa buntag. or maybe enroll sa boxing classes. ipagawas didto imong kalagot.
make yourself beautiful and sexy. learn new things. if your hubby can befriend other people, why cant you? ang imo man gud hubby kay nagsalig nga musikit lang gihapon ka niya. pakurati pud panagsa ang imong bana uy. just because kasal namo, it doesnt mean nga magkompyansa lang ka.
ayaw na pangaway, musamot na ug gara ang imong bana. what you do is use the reverse psychology method. pasagdi siya. ayaw siya himoa ug sentro sa imong kinabuhi. you deserve to be the center of your universe. reclaim your worth. kung mocheat siya pasagdi. remember that the ultimate revenge a woman can give to a man is to be beautiful.