My cousin has a baby with our other relative!

[AnakinXD]

1. Continue and finish school. BOTH THE GUYS.
2. Keep the child and raise it. Everyone needs to help.
3. Cooperate, Reconcile, Mediate and arrange aggreements.

Not about what you want or your status.

Now...what is best for the child's future and well-being?

That should be the most important. Children/Babys are not toys, possessions, property. They are human.

Thanks bro, i have that on my mind, and i have already a plan for this, pero dapat ako e consult sa girl to make her ready for the outcomes, I have already talked with my mother about this and let her promise to kept this first, as of now 4 meh kabuok nakahibaw sa situation with out telling the girl nga ako g sulti,an akong mother sa situation nila.

[Dax101106]

Very complicated,
Impossible things made possible does make impossible outcomes.
No the baby should stay,
Does the parent of the girl know about the situation, there is no other being
who can help the girl except the parents.
She can still continue on studying, I know the parents will look after her future.
Just open up the problem with her parents, she needs help now very badly.

Sakto jud ni siya bro...

[rom69erz]

too complicated gyud. comfort lang ang imo cousin brad. wa man aso ma komkom, better tell the parents as early as possible. naa naman jud na dawaton nalang.

[I-lab-Iero]

@ I-lab-Iero: thanks sis, ang parents sa girl wala pa kahibaw sa situation, currently nag tago2 ron ang girl ug walay uli2 sa ilaha tungod sa nahitabo, ang iya ron kauban kay iyang classm8 sa college, I told her that kind of strategy once pero dili jud daw niya kaya mahadlok jud daw siya kay gubot jud konoh kaayo ang mahitabo, tsk tsk @_@

Your welcome Bro,
Actually I'm a Bro.
Then let her hide and you should tell the parents,
sooner or later they will still find out.
It's better that they could furnish plans on how to deal with
the situation.
It's there already there's nothing that they could do about the things
done.

[baning]

This is not the baby's fault... so the baby should be kept...
Naa man jud na ang kalagot at the beginning but sooner or later nawala ra na especially if makakita na ang grandparents sa apo...
The girl's parents are the most appropriate person na mo help niya... and walay ginikanan na mo abandon sa anak...

[murdocman12]

tiwas ra c.e ing human anak maug xa rai n ingana.. m solve rana d mdugay...

[heisenberg69]

Kasagaran in-ani nga cases... ang mostly mo open ani nga topic..mao mismo ang naa sa situation karon..

I just hope that its not your love story TS.. then need lang nimo ang advice namo...

[ellehpo28]

Do you know of someone na pwede maging mediator? Like somebody with authority na irespect ng parents sa girl kay kung ikaw siguro ang magsulti basin magka 3rd world war. Maybe a counsellor or a pastor or?

[AnakinXD]

Kasagaran in-ani nga cases... ang mostly mo open ani nga topic..mao mismo ang naa sa situation karon..

I just hope that its not your love story TS.. then need lang nimo ang advice namo...

No bro, im not the one in the situation im helping the girl with my advices kay luoy au gud, mag sige ug tawag inig ka gabie mag hilak ipa kuha jud lagi dwa niya, then ako g ingnan ako uyab about ani, ga lagot akong uyab dili siya mo sugot nga ipa kuha pud ang bata kay ngano gud tawn ma sayon2 ra nila ug pa abort, tsk tsk

[AnakinXD]

Do you know of someone na pwede maging mediator? Like somebody with authority na irespect ng parents sa girl kay kung ikaw siguro ang magsulti basin magka 3rd world war. Maybe a counsellor or a pastor or?

Uhmm yeah bro, akong mama, all of the neighbors respects my mom, tungod sad siguro sa ilang achievements and educational background both of my parents, my father is a Mechanical Engineer and my mother is a Commerce Graduate which has a small business, pero guys if mahibaw.an na sa parents sa laki ang sitwasyon kay ma gubot jud, kibaw ba mo nga ang Amahan sa laki kay grabeh maka dala ug dagmal sa iyang mga anak? istrikto kaayo ni ilang papa sa mga laki nga anak pero ang mga babae nila nga anak kay ok ra, diba bali ang mind set up? Namabdos ilang igsoon babae gani pero ok ra sa amahan pagka dugayan. Ang ako lang kay ang babae dili jud xa mo sugot kay hadlok lagi jud xa sa akong uncle, kay maldito daw kaayo.