is it okay not to talk to your dad for so long?

[keen]

if magdwell ka sa mga sayop sa imo dad or sa mga butang/thoughts nga makapainit sa imo dugo niya, maglisod jud ka pawagtang sa lagot and mosamot nga di ka ganahan talk balik niya.

try to calm yourself. think of all the good things he's done for you. rewind/flashback to your younger days and sa good memories. it will help ease. most importantly, think about all the things he's going through right now. naa jud na something that's causing him to act that way.

communication ra jud na cya miga. klarohay ba para mahibal-an unsa jud cause sa problema. try daw to do it before it will be too late.

[maddox_pitt]

if magdwell ka sa mga sayop sa imo dad or sa mga butang/thoughts nga makapainit sa imo dugo niya, maglisod jud ka pawagtang sa lagot and mosamot nga di ka ganahan talk balik niya.

try to calm yourself. think of all the good things he's done for you. rewind/flashback to your younger days and sa good memories. it will help ease. most importantly, think about all the things he's going through right now. naa jud na something that's causing him to act that way.

communication ra jud na cya miga. klarohay ba para mahibal-an unsa jud cause sa problema. try daw to do it before it will be too late.

thanks i know...

[colby]

Depende sa reason, pero sometimes okay pud ng naa time wala moy communication kay sooner ma realize nimo na miss diay nimo siya. My father and I once had this problem, we didn't talked for a long time, but we did patch things after all he is my father and I am his daughter. I always said this, "My father is the guy that loves me the longest." Dili jud nako na siya matiis, love nako ako father.

Alam naman ninyo, bisad unsa paman mahitabo o nahitabo, usa lang jud ang atong father, mao dapat jud nato sila alagaan..

[joanne05]

try to forgive and forget..before it's too late. at the end of the day he's still your dad.

share lang nako: wala jud kaila akong bf sa iyang REAL dad and i know how much he hopes that he know him.

[geff_chang]

I rarely/hardly talk with my dad.
Di lang gyud mi close.
And I'm the eldest and only son. >_<

[thereseclaireanne]

It's never ok.. They're not getting any younger bya. and who knows, no matter what their health condition is, it's never a guarantee they'll be there the next day..

I tried not talking to my papa for 4mos. - it was the longest time gyud. maglagot lang ko sa iya gibuhat.. But mao lagi, after all that has happened, he is after all still my papa..

[~aveen~]

dili ra ko maka-talk skong papa kung wala pud siay dri sa balay...pero ug naa siya, dli jud m-kaya nah dli mi mag-talk...bisan pag dli ayo ko gnahan kig-talk jud siya mga stuffs2...nuon, wla man pud koi kalagot jud sakong papa now...hmmm sauna nuon, kami ni kuya wala nakig-talk niya, coz sometimes mugawas jud iyang pgka-tactless nga mka-hurt nah sa amo...3 daes man ata to wala mi talk2 sa balay, as if invisible mi, maski pagkaon og pag-uli blay or mulakw wa jud..till niabot nag point nasuko siya samo...didto nah dayon nag-start ang away, naka-shagit jud kos akong papa,defending my side, our sides..hmm well, don't wanna bring back the past...sakit ayo to nahitabo samo nga nilayas kajot akong papa...

but now, after that incident...okei nami...close nah! kbalo nah m-reflect akong papa...pero naa jud japon iyang pride nga mka-create ug away sahai...

nice jud og naai open forum or just a conversation between u and your father...

[noy]

naunsa diay noy?

actually a lot happend...and i could say it was all me...parents will always be parents..and they will try to do everything to protect us, even if it means,being paranoid most of the time and asking too many Qs and giving us restrictions and sometimes not supporting our interests...'cause they have thier own point of view of a good life for us...i kind'a misunderstood that...too bad....i took off,i said to myself i want out and i can do this alone...so i decided to ran away from home, quit school and did almost everything that would break their heart,had a really messed up life back then,thanks to drugs,alcohol and mostly to my foolish pride for not admitting they were right...that everybody was right....

This new life that i have now is gift from Christ,though not perfect...but filled with love and forgiveness,especially forgiving myself..i wasn't able to finish college,but i'm blessed with a very good job..so someday i will...everyday is a struggle but at the end of the day,everything was just enough..my dad hasn't forgiven me yet...it's already been 7 years since we were in good terms,and it could go further but
it's ok...in the first place i brought this to myself...so it's all good...i know he will forgive me someday.. and this time it's not all me...someone up there got my back! and he got yours too!!.......Merry Christmas guys!!!!

"Yet those who wait for the LORD,Will gain new strength;They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,They will walk and not become weary."
Isaiah 40:31

[Agora]

ive tried that. i didnt talk to my dad for 3 whole years coz lagot ko nya. stressful to xa for me, coz am a papa's gurl bya.

[Moongoddess28]

My Pa and I didn't have a good conversation since I was in Grade 1. That was 16 years ago.