i rarely comment on threads like this, but man, JUST BE PRESENTABLE, BE YOURSELF and TAKE IT LIKE A MAN...
the more you're doing this, the more you're pushing away ladies out there, much more you're destroying yourself...sorry bH, but you are making yourself pathetic na jd bai, and girls don't like guys who whine like that...sure, u may have a lot of heartaches already, but don't go all hatin' to the girls who doesn't respond positively to your attraction towards them..na confuse nka to the point nga mag make over ka sa imong self para lang magustuhan, where's the fun in that? that's not even you anymore dba?
think about it bro, learn from your experiences..take a look at yourself also - deep inside( kung asa ka sayop, maybe inamiga ra jd to iyaha, namis-interpret ra nimu, etc...), and use those learnings para sunod, you will know what do and mas precise pa jd...
u might say nga "im just saying this coz akong image kay bad boy kay naa koy mga tattoos piercings, dating, kung unsa pa", but do u know how did i win my wife's (crush_23) heart? it's simply because of two things,
1) a very good sense of humor that really worked on her - it's almost like having a brand new joke for her to laugh at everyday bisan recycled na kau ang kasagaran, and 2) im a good conversationalist and a very good listener - we discuss things that really is really worth discussing, and when she talks, i listen to what she says and made sure i have something to say about it...when we had our first date, i made sure that i will look presentable enough for her not to be intimidated or scared(heehee), wore polo shirt that will hide my tattoos, and prepared my brain for a good topic to share...and it worked...
im not saying this to put you down or brag myself, but because I FEEL YOU bro, i experienced what you experienced way back when i was younger, and i learned that it's not always the image, money, cars that win girls (kung mao man gani na, then she's no good for you) but in order to get serious girls that will really take you for who you are, you gotta be yourself...work on your attitude a bit cguro and for sure, some girl/s out there would really dig you...
Don't focus too much on what to change in you, esp imo image para lang matagad ka, instead focus on how to make the lady you like comfortable when you're with her...maskin pa cguro ug imong nawng Bentong pre, but if kahibaw lang jd ka maminaw ug magpalingaw sa girl (conversation-wise), win-win situation jd na para nimu...it will surely leave a mark on their mind...
cheer up bro, it's not the end of the world...
Originally Posted by SPRINGFIELD_XD_40
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