hhhaaayyy.. lami man jud kaau ang feeling everytime ka mo forgive...
hhhaaayyy.. lami man jud kaau ang feeling everytime ka mo forgive...
I don't care about what other people may think anyway and I have no regrets now for everything I have done for that one guy..He may have caused me so much pain, but he once was able to give me the best moments of my life..Honestly, I'm quite scared for him because I know karma will come..I'm hoping he'll be able to learn his lesson and still be tough enough to get through it alive..
Forgiveness is a bitter pill to swallow.. but I need to.. not just for my Peace of Mind but I know it's a balm for my hurting soul as well..
I may not forget about it that easily but I'd rather be grown up about it and let go rather than inflict myself with unecessary pain and hate.=)
i was with this guy for nine months plus. at first, i wasn't really attracted to him and all, then he befriended me, until we got used to being with each other. the relationship was quite perfect and somewhat peaceful for both of us. i never expected to find a guy like him. he was actually a reflection of my dream guy. our relationship went smoothly. he never cheated or attempted to cheat. as i've said, it was quite perfect, so to make the story short, we broke up because i found out one of his darkest secrets. he made a bet with his friends on me. "GIPUSTAAN" ko nila. yep. it was painful because i've never thought to be in such act. it took me a year to recover and to trust somebody again. he attempted to compromise, but i've had just enough. he tried to court me again for several months, but i just can't let go of the pain he caused me. just last year, we've met again in a mall. he was with his wife and his baby daughter. we've talked for a couple of minutes, exchanging salutations and all. he even asked me to have him back, but i told him i could only forgive him for what he did to me. he could never have me back. i wished him well with his married life before we took each other's direction.
I forgive those I so called "b******" that had somehow ruined my once happy relationship w/my long term boyfriend. Those girls are so pathetic. As my boyf told me, "dalawang klase ang babae; ang babae na pinapakasalan at ang babae na paglalaruan lamang". I was even willing to let my long term boyfriend go, but he didn't. He told me that he may have fooled me, but he realized that no one has ever captured his heart like I did. Owwwss....There are doubts from time to time after I forgive him, but it's good to live in a world where instead of bitterness, forgiveness takes place. Love is not just a mere feeling. It is a decision to forgive and to accept despite of. To all those "b*****" who did their very best to get my boyfriend, sorry girls...mas gwapa pa ko sa inyo! hahhahhhahaha!
i cant forgive him,, after sa pusil and kutsilyo nga iya cge ug tutok nako before nagbuwag mi,, hmmm,,, murag lisod jud,, cguro in time,,, karun grabe kau ang mga gaba sa iyaha,,, and i think he deserves it,, mao nay result sa iyang mga actions sauna,,, god bless nalng niya...
i believe that forgiveness comes together with letting go. At first mahirap kasi mahal mo pa rin yung tao. but as you move on with life, your interests shift, you gain new interests, meet new people, and sabay dun mawala na yung feelings mo para sa taong sumira sa buhay mo. Yung girl na minahal ko ng todo, sinira nya yung buhay ko. but since i loved her so much, forgiving was not even a part of the probem. the problem was how to live life without her. but i managed, i now found someone to spend te rest of my life with and we are blessed with a healthy baby boy. I moved on and with that came forgiveness.
but to those romanics out there. what i have experienced is the perfect expample when people say that the woman you end up marrying was the one who was there at the right time. not necessarily the one you would really have wanted to spend the rest of your life with., becuase in my case it's true i moved on, but emotionaly the girl who broke my heart still holds it in her hand because she has it until now.
i believe everyone is capable of forgiving people who have hurt them no matter how bad or how mean it was, ang pangutana lang, when na mahitabo. some people would find it really hard to, i think depending on the degree of pain they have caused them. ako bitaw, grabe kau natabo nako. pang maalaala jud. i was cheated on big time, na double ang pain kay ang other woman is someone i trusted so much like a sister. somehow, naa pay gamay kaau nga sakit but then i moved on na jud a long time ago and everything just made sense to me now, naa juy plano ang Lord para natong tanan. not at all times sakit and failure lang ato life, just dont give up on yourself and dont give up with life
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