Girls buy into the “ men like jerks” cliche, because time and time again women go after jerks, and wind up crying on good guys shoulders and asking dumb questions like, “Why can’t ______ be as nice as YOU?”. that there’s no correlation between “bad guys” (or gals) being any better or worse in bed, there’s DEFINITELY enough evidence to support that women GO for “bad” guys. As someone who has been shot down by women for taking “too long” to make a 1st move (since when is 3 dates taking “too long”

?), I can attest to this. When the chips are down, if you have the option for “hot guy who’s a real jerkface” and “not as hot guy who treats you like a queen and has an awesome personality”, nine times out of ten the hot jerk will win. And please, before someone starts in one the “you must THINK you’re nice and are really a jerk”, don’t mistake “nice” for “pushover” or “wuss” or “passive aggressive”. Just because us nice fellas don’t take advantage of you, or we treat you well, and NOT like the proverbial piece of meat, does NOT = we are a total douchebag floormat.