
Originally Posted by
barbiedonayre
Well..I understand your point here..moving on from what you have now and there's are a lot of ideas coming out from our fellow istoryans how cope to such scenario. I agree with them.
What I dont agree though is the denial and "forgetting of your past".. This should not be the case. Maybe I was not getting what you really meant here because you said..."you want to move on".
For me, our experiences defines what we are, as a person. It is part of our story..like a book of our life, we cant just tore a few pages coz we dont like it. It is from there that we see our mistakes, and our defining moment when we stood up againts all odds. This we can be proud of, telling our children puhon when they grow up how their mom or father became what we are now... so cheer up, its not the end of the world.These are lessons in life we get from the experiences we have time to time. It is a challenge though, for you to grow a much better person than what you are now.
-just my 3 cents