i guess to use the word choosy or picky is not right and is unfair. i believe that we "ALL" have our preferences. you would be such a liar ug mo ingon ka nga dili ka mamili. would u just accept a prostiture gf? and addict bf? a killer bf? how about a retarded gf? dili sad siguro. in some ways, there are qualities nga atong tanawon sa taw. ug ikaw wala ka magustui sa imong gusto pud, ayaw kalain, kay dili sa tanang panahon makuha nato atong gusto. this is why we all have to keep working on becoming better persons, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and financially pud ug madala, if u are sufficient in all these qualities, then u have an edge than others