Hahaha! Aw, ate na diay taka. nyahaha~
Para nako mu disagree ko sa "why suffer a lot where in fact you can get a guy in just a snap of your finger.." because, been there done that sad. Moving on doesn't really require to turn your back at the person you know you still love and face another guy. Why? I bet it might just add more problems.
Why jump into another relationship when you're not over yet? You'll end up hurting the new guy. I'm not saying it's a sin to do so, but kung love nimo ang new guy... Then let it be! Stay with the new guy but make sure na dili mu leak ang imong "wala pa ko ka get over niya" nga feeling. If you choose to forget about the past, guess what? it will always be a part of you. But, choosing to accept the fact and let go of the past, it's a better decision. It could be nga ni abot gyud ang new guy sa imo life because he will already be the one who will share with you your ups & downs all through your lifetime.
And one more thing, suffering or hurting is not bad. They are the feelings that will let you acknowledge what being happy truly means.
This is just my point of view, based on my experience and observations.
