Nasulti na nila tanan ang dapat nimo buhaton.. So I guess naa na ka idea unsa dapat. This is not the time to think of your own desires and wishes. Think that your Mom is going through a really tough road right now. Gahunahuna na unsaon pag buhi nimo, sa future, and unsa pa.. If naa ka nahan ivoice out, ingna imo mama in a nice way, ayaw jud paabta sa point na maglalis mo duha. Chill lang, put your self in her shoes...