
Originally Posted by
messy_babycate
a healthy relationship means you are open about everything. You may be shy if the relationship is young but let me tell you that the key to a happy, succesful and content relationship is an open-communication. It is not wrong to ask why perme siya manghagad so long as tarungon nimo ask... say..."Babe, it's not that I am complaining because I like as well pero nakabantay lage ko magsige na lang ta ug in-ani...why diay?" If he would answer, "kay ganahan lang ko." then that is the truth. Dili kay ingon mao ra iya habol...Admit it, it feels really good to do it, maybe not on your part pero sa guy grabe na ug satisfaction.
As long as he is not lacking in other aspects of the relationship, then you are on the right track. But it is never wrong to say no when you don't want to. The last thing a bf wants is to do it with his gf faking it or worst, not responding at all. Orgas*m is a psychological state and needs proper cocentration so if dili nimu feel ang inyong gibuhat mafeel na sa guy.