
Originally Posted by
tamse
hello guys.. thanks for the suggestions ... i dont like being lied to so today .. just few minutes ago he message me and i asked him "is it safe to love you?"... he said "no..i am married"
he said he love me because he do but he's married...
right now he wanna pursue a relationship with me but
i never ever dreamed to be a man's other woman..
i am disgusted by the thought or the idea of being one or even someone is being one...
but i am so puzzled right now that the love and the situation is fighting.. or is it more better to say, my heart and my brain is fighting...
i need to get a drink or something
by the way .. he's my first love
I'd like to applause you for not wanting to be a mans other woman. It is understandable that your mind would tell you hitching with him is wrong but your heart would contest and say you love him.
To make your decision-making a lot easier... think about this:
"
If he cheated with you (meaning you were the third party) then most likely, the time would come that he would cheat on you. If he did it once on his current partner, he would do it to you if you'd become his partner."
better be safe than sorry sis...