ok ra ni ako gbuhat?

[Pinkish]

lisuda ani TS.. mas ok pa if infidelity ana kay naa pay chance mausab.. drugs.. close to nill. since yer thinking of your children.. haven't you thought of it in the future what he can do to them kay ga "tama" xa? if you really want to leave him.. go ahead.. don't use the children as an excuse.. you can file a case and ask for support. now, kaning gugma kay gahi man pud ni.. if you still love him.. then i guess you can still take the pain and expect more to come.. whatever decision you make. goodluck to you sis and wish you all the best in life.

thanks. but im not using my children as an excuse. they are so close to him. in fairness to him, he is a good father man pd. ang problema lng jd ky di xa kabiya sa bisyo. and also his mom. so many times his mom tried to argue with me without any reason at all. she would make up stories about me pra mgkabuwag jd mi sa ako husband. grabe i dont know what to do...

[Pinkish]

kalisod sa imong situation oi..are you a housewife? start looking for work cguro then try to make arrangements with your parents or close relatives to look after your kids if wla pa cla nagschool so that you can work. kay right now if you stay with your husband nya nagdrugs cya mas traumatic sa imong kids and naa nya tendency na ma-ingana cla seeing their father being abusive or being an addict. mao cguro ing-ana sad imong husband kay labanan sa iyang mama. it's very difficult having a mother in law na d kaibaw mudiscipline sa anak. minyo na gani labanan pa gihapon ang sayop nga binuhatan.

its really true sis. lisod jd diay kung konsintidor ang parents. but in our case ang mother ra man nya konsintidor. his father dli man nuon but d problem is under-de-saya man gd iya father. so ako husband dli jd mahadlok sa iya gbuhat mao confident au xa to tell me to leave home. his mom even offered him a million if he would leave me. grabe jd ako situation. please pray for me guys...

[Pinkish]

Weee...kalingaw ana sis, dili mana hooked sa drugs...Bound and Tied naman na.

Since padung naman iyang sweldo nimo...huwat huwat lang gamay...

People will stop letting him borrow money...things can only go downhill from now on.

No help really matters if the addict doesn't decide for himself that he wants to stop drugs.

Be strong sis, pahungaw lang diri...a lot of people are here for you

thanks klave. i know everything will be fine but i hope i can be strong enough to face these trials. sometimes i want to give up. i keep questioning God why he nver cared for me. i am a good daughter, friend, co-worker, wife and a mother to my kids pro i didnt feel any reward for all of this...

[G®ttl®vE]

With God I think there's no problem without a solution to it. kana kai gihatag niya nimo 100% kaya rana nimo. God is testing you, how strong you are. Why not encourage him together with your family, attend Sunday masses, bring him near to God ug kon pwd nai mga organizations diha CFC, Marriage encounter bana, ug daghan pa diha or attend mo Family Counseling, naa man guro na diha sa Santo Rosario kana kon Catholics mo ha. Seek God's guidance, pray that you'll recover your hubby from being a zombie...

[Vince Cart101]

I understand your situation but it's a matter of choice....

A. Suffer with him?
B. Take the risk and find a way how to survive.
C. Pray and Pray and Pray and Pray and Pray and Pray nga mausab siya.

=)

kani lig-on ni na advice sis.. Apili ug pray para pud naa changes sa mga probz na naabot sa imoha krn..

[Pinkish]

^^^yeah i think im a strong person. pro grabe ra sad c Lord muhatag ug test nko. since i was a child i was never been a black sheep to my parents. yes, we are catholic but i quit going to church coz i feel that my life is getting worst. sauna i always leave everything to HIM and I keep on thanking HIM despite of the miseries. pro la ghpon development...

[Pinkish]

kani lig-on ni na advice sis.. Apili ug pray para pud naa changes sa mga probz na naabot sa imoha krn..

nabuhat namn nko tanan uy. still no improvement. hahaayz...

[GOSPELofROCH]

^^^yeah i think im a strong person. pro grabe ra sad c Lord muhatag ug test nko. since i was a child i was never been a black sheep to my parents. yes, we are catholic but i quit going to church coz i feel that my life is getting worst. sauna i always leave everything to HIM and I keep on thanking HIM despite of the miseries. pro la ghpon development...

good thing kana ra ang imuha...be thankful for that, look at the children and mothers on the street begging for something to eat, struggling to survive. God will not help you, cuz there to guide you, it is you who will make the choice

[necrotic freak]

nabuhat namn nko tanan uy. still no improvement. hahaayz...

sure ka nabuhat na nimo tanan?

Dili ka maka ila sa ginoo kung hayahay permi imong life..

[xxjamezxx]

go girl heheh