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[Pinkish]

i just found out that my husband is getting into drugs again. one night he went home, i was so mad at him but i tried to keep it coz his mom told me not to make any arguments. i did what she told me but i did not get any sleep that night because of anger. the next day i confronted him and he walked away not even answering my questions. i got so mad that i yelled at him. we were exchanging painful words and then suddnly his mom came into the picture and tried (daw) to cease the argument. My husband admits he still into that thing but told me that i cant change him and if i cant stand the situation, id better leave the house. Ang nakapait pa jud ky his mom told him to leave and go with her ky grabe daw ko. I was so mad that before they can reach the door, i pulled my husbands hair. Nya ang iya mom, instead na iya mi uwangon, she even tried to hit me! My husband pushed me back, and yelled at me. Sa akong kalagot, I defended myself and told his damn mom that she is insane!

What do you think? Please advise me on this....

[dindinisms]

Woah! That is really serious TS. I think it's best if you go home nalang to your parent's home coz if you are there dili naka mag suffer. If your husband really loves you, he will do anything to win you back.

[dandan68]

aguy...............kalisod...tsk.....d sad nato ma blame ang inahan kay mother baya sya......ahmm.....adtu lang usa sa inyu houz or sa imong parents houz.yaw lang sa pakita u bana.mangeta ra na imo bana nimo.og ingna sya d ka mu uli inyu kung d sya mausab..

[Pinkish]

^^ its not that easy. i still have small kids and financially di nko pa kaya.... now he admits he is wrong but ive lost the trust already. saun nalng...

[epoaxlan]

sis i feel for you, in.ani pod ako experience with my bro..drug addict pod sya..mau nalng ron kay menyo nako naa na ko lalin balay ga puyo dna ko ka experience sa hell katong wala pako biya sa amo..lisod jud raba kau ni cla mausab sis once ma hook na sa drugs. expect nalng jud nga you will be abused physically and verbally. once ma hook ang taw sa drugs dna na maka feel ug louy mao nang mangulata nalng, they only think about how to sustain their vice. louy pod imo mga kids sis bacn maamong cla, so if lisod na gyud ang situation mau pa palayo nalng sa mo niya. yaw pag huwat sis nga ma totally devastated ka sa situation kay you still have kids depending on you. think of them as of now, make them your source of strenght. kaya mo yan sis!

[tikLish]

wa jud nay au imong bana TS. hasta sad iyang mama. are u depending on him financiaLLy?do u have kids? if yes then u got a serious problem there..if not then great,anytime u can leave him and ur damn mother-in-law. if he's into drugs and can't get rid of that then u might wanna consider leaving him for good. much better to raise ur kids w/o him than having him around..letting ur kids see him that way. really it's a good way to talk things over and not resort to having breakups or the like but if he's behaving that way,better send him to rehab..that issue wont be solved not until he'll stop w/ drugs. and dont make his mother defend him like he's a little child. duhhh.. mother-in-law = woman hitler.. haha
anyway if u'r furious at least dont resort to getting someone hurt..just say it thru words..

[jntio]

lisoda sb sa situation nmo sis oi

[Klave]

Hey, its not like he is having an affair.

But drugs are a big problem, it can't be helped you got furious and did what you did.

If your husband is working, you can try to ask help from his company's HR and make sure a part of his salary will directly go to you.

If your husband is well off, make sure to deal with them so that you can get money for your children.

Since your husband has responded the way he did, that means he is really hooked. He is just a zombie right now.

Be systematic about this, you are the one with reason left.

You can only wait till he decides to get clean, with that kind of protective mother there is really nothing you can do.

[Pinkish]

sis i feel for you, in.ani pod ako experience with my bro..drug addict pod sya..mau nalng ron kay menyo nako naa na ko lalin balay ga puyo dna ko ka experience sa hell katong wala pako biya sa amo..lisod jud raba kau ni cla mausab sis once ma hook na sa drugs. expect nalng jud nga you will be abused physically and verbally. once ma hook ang taw sa drugs dna na maka feel ug louy mao nang mangulata nalng, they only think about how to sustain their vice. louy pod imo mga kids sis bacn maamong cla, so if lisod na gyud ang situation mau pa palayo nalng sa mo niya. yaw pag huwat sis nga ma totally devastated ka sa situation kay you still have kids depending on you. think of them as of now, make them your source of strenght. kaya mo yan sis!

thanks sis. i know d lng ako naproblema lyk ani nga situation but mas lisod jd sa ako ky naa ko mga anak nya i am not financially stable jud. pro i know i can make it but i just dnt knw when will this sufferings end...

[GOSPELofROCH]

Buwage, ayaw pag duha duha, total siya ra ang magmahay