Gay/Bisexual..whatever u call it. Is it something that we should be ashamed of??

[iMAX]

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Last week, a good friend of mine came back for a visit after five years in the states .. wow, still beautiful body, handsome and girls still turn their heads on him ... but, as we had a good conversation over dinner at ayala .. he said he is " gay" and his mother knows about it ... frankly, I was shocked but listening to him, I realized how happy and free he is now .. he was a gym buff at fitness first .. a body to die for ... very handsome face, that many times he was approached by talent scouts ...many girlfriends .. in and out of motels with them .. hehe .. we never can tell that deep within him there was this longing to be free. America set him free, as I jokingly told him .. but I said to him let it be that our friends here in the Philippines not know anything about it for now... I admired him and respected him as a friend.

if we are just open minded and open to change, daghan tingay tao di mag cge tago sa closet...

[jisatsu]

actually theres nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual, whats wrong is, denying to yourself and to the community that you are gay.. be out dude!.. ehhehe
got lots of friends who are bisex and they are totally proud of it..

kaso nga lang mawawalan na ng gwapo lalaki ang pilipinas. tsk.. too bad..


kung saan ka masaya teh, supurtahan taka!

[emow]

there's nothing wrong with being gay.... <---viewed by most people in the context of as an individual...
..as long as they act decent. <---- viewed in a bigger picture by many, in the context of societal norms...

Do 3rd *** really are satisfied with this condition? Apparently not. But the society you are in is the arbiter of what is okay and what is not... sad reality...

[saitohkiyohiru]

im just sad that a lot of people out there think of us as monster or what. they don't respect us. why? just because some of our "species" are acting inappropriately? u generalize people here. we are not all the same. i hope u get my point.

It is true that there are people who discriminate against the third ***. Wa tay mabuhat ana because that ia a person's personal outlook, which may have been brought about by upbringing, peers or religion etc. Ilaha pud na. But generally, respect is relative. Whether you are a straight guy or girl, but if you act in a manner which di sab ka angay respetohan then that will exactly be the result, same as with guys trapped in a womans body, girls trapped in a mans body and those who are amphibious. Even if you are gay, lesbian or Bi, if you act in a way that deserves my respect, then I will give you that respect that is due to you.

Just don't try to get into my pants or anything lascivious to me, and I will not break both of your legs.

[bellamoda]

there should be no shame with whatever sexual orientation you choose. i have many friends who are gay, bisexual and they lead happy, prosperous lives.

[qnxt]

it's a choice they have. As long as they're not doing bad things...then they should be treated equal.