is it okay not to talk to your dad for so long?

[maddox_pitt]

mka hilak mn sad ko ani nga thread oie... kbaw ka girl mka relate kaau ko nmo... we have the same problem.. naglibog jud ko kng mo storya ko nya.. di mn gud nako mapugngan ako self nga maglagot kng mag atubang mi.. i am more than willing to forgive him but sya mismo di mangayo ug sorry.. and di xa willing mag change.. di xa willing i.correct tanan nya sayop.. ganahan xa mgpadayon.. and that made me hate him more..

mo basa nlng sad kog apil sa mga advices kay more or less same ra among problem..

bitaw..ako papa sad wala man nagsorry...pero after the last fight na di nako mutubag niya, di nako muanswer ug calls and di nako mangayo ug maski unsa niya, siguro he realized i was for real this time... so subtly, murag nagchange siya gamai..kahit papano, okay na sad na oi... papa man ghapon siya nako..ingon pa diri sa istorya... haiz*** may na lang nay advices diri, at least magpatuo pako..kung wala, tikison jud nako di muistorya niya..

newei, good luck sa imuha..hope you can fix your relationship with your dad sad...

[maddox_pitt]

pasagdi nalang lagi na imong papa teeeehh.. kai maski gani imong mama ug imong mga igsuon di jud kapugong nya.. kbaw ko sakit, kai ingon nmo close mo sa una.. time heals teh.. maka realize ra na xa S00N. mapul-an ra na xa.. and pls, ayaw nah na xa pasudla sa inyo eii.. harap²an na kau na iyaha hap! ug ipakiha na xas imong mama.

my dad's not here naman...he's in manila right now...
....pasagdaan na lang lagi intawn........ la may choice..
do you know the feeling kana bitaw 5 minute free call sa smart unli and 1 minute pa lang silent na ang both lines kay we dont have much to say? ana mi ron sa ko dad...pero at least sa text mureply nako....

[acejoy17]

ako dad gibiya-an mi for another girl. as in just packed his bags and left. he was even very proud to roam around the city acknowledging iya kabit. never had he apologize to us and as a result wa jud mi communicate nya for years. karon nangaminyo nami ug naa na siya mga apo na halos wala kaila nya. we only text or communicate with him during naay occasions, etc. sometimes maka bantay ko na he really wants to see us pero wala naman mi gana. sakitan pud ko mu tan-aw what he as become and old man with a younger mistress and a disgrace and disapointment.. sila pa man until now. He was not the father that I knew. maybe we will regret it pero wala nami ma himo ana.mao ni mga guys na naay pamilya... family first before vegah jud mo. for me its not worth it.

[tikLish]

no.
talk to him. basin too late na ang tanan in the end..
forgive && forget
he's your dad..
w/o him you might have not written this thread.

[mcjun23]

just forgive your dad kung naa man sya sayop nga nahimu,, ky bsag unsaon pa nimu, imu ra gihapon siyang amahan..

[maddox_pitt]

@acejoy17: that's sad..... maybe he wants to spend more time with you jud... much more sa apo...
@tikLish & mcjun23: yeah i know...i know now...thanks

[acejoy17]

@acejoy17: that's sad..... maybe he wants to spend more time with you jud... much more sa apo...
@tikLish & mcjun23: yeah i know...i know now...thanks

Im sure he does. We still get to see him sometimes at special occasions but lahi na jud. There really is a gap and we just try to be civil. I guess we are still angry for leaving us coz we tried to win him back thru letter, text, heart to heart talk but he still left without any explanation and until now wala jud ni ask ug forgiveness and at times would even act as if kami naay sala nya. So this is what he gets for his decision. Ok ra man na magig bati pero it has to have participation for both sides dili lang one sided coz taas kaau ug pride ug ego ang usa.

[randymunz]

talk to your dad open up to him your regrets and heartaches because of his wrong doings.
seryosong pakig-storya and then once na sulti na nimo tanan forgive him so you can move on in life.
kay bisag unsaon nimo ug limod limod or utong utong sa tinod-anay lang apiktado man ka emotionally, mentally and spiritually.

[hyori]

for me, dili ok ui! papa's girl man gud q.. pero naa jud one time nga gihatod q niya going to school (college paq ato..hihihi ), hilum au me while naa sa byahe.. shocking jud to sya nga time! hahai ,,, human ato pag.abot sa school kay gihug jud niya ug au, kay mingawon na pod sya naq..


i miss my dad!

[ferdM16]

Have an open heart with your dad... make the first move bisan unsa pa ka kalagot niya... don't be a rebel out of him and things will turn good on your side.