LETTING GO vs SETTING FREE

[bodacious_babe]

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lisod sad ani nga question oi...
for me, letting go happens in two ways. first, when you're not happy anymore so you have to let him/her go because you'll only gonna hurt him/here. second, when your partner is not happy with you anymore so you have to let go, set him/her free, and wish him/her happiness.
setting free happens when you're partner is not happy with you anymore and you have to set him/her free. you can't say "i don't love you anymore so i have to set you free." it's the opposite.

was i able to give justice to the question?

well said, rain|spirit.

My take on this is: LETTING GO means, acceptance... being happy for the other person (brace yourself because it is easier said than done esp if love nimo xa). SETTING FREE means, allowing your heart to heal... wala man ka gipa asa, if you were told from the very start kung unsa jud status - then mao na, you don't have the right to be angry or feel betrayed. So, better, set your mind and heart free of all pain and guilt na lang (again, there's a temptation to feel angry. Don't).

[LAPA]

pareha ra man ning duha.. both means WA KAY IMO! ikaw rang usa. LOL

[ramzeners]

Pareho ra na uy...



+innocente+

[bodacious_babe]

pareha ra man ning duha.. both means WA KAY IMO! ikaw rang usa. LOL

ha ha ha ha haha.. pa char2x ra diay to akoa banca.... ha ha ha

[Mr. BrokenHearted]

waaaaaaaaaa pareha ra na oiez wa mn guro nay kalainan hehehe

[hyori]

Amen to pletho


But... Letting go is like moving on but not getting too far.
Setting free is setting your mind that there is no turning back.

doubts.....

this is the difference!

[randymunz]

1. LETTING GO when you realize that love didn't exist after all
SETTING FREE when you love him/her and for special reasons, you sacrifice
2. LETTING GO when you are tired of his/her crazy ideas and his/her personality
SETTING FREE when he/she is tired of you
3. LETTING GO for unclear reasons, invalid ones and the unknown
SETTING FREE for valid unselfish reasons
4. LETTING GO when he/she goes just because you said so
SETTING FREE when he/she uses his/her freedom to choose where to stay- where he/she thinks he's/she's free
5. LETTING GO when hes/shes gone forever
SETTING FREE when you'll wait for him/her
6. LETTING GO for someone you thought you love
SETTING FREE for someone you love and will always love for the rest of your life
7. LETTING GO asks, " Will this make me feel better?"
SETTING FREE asks, " Will this make her/him feel better?"
8. LETTING GO is taking adjustment into consideration
SETTING FREE is taking recovery into consideration
9. LETTING GO is the beginning of a new life
SETTING FREE is the beginning of a new life in a new world
10. LETTING GO is asking yourself, "How will I get used to this?"
SETTING FREE is asking yourseld, "How will I ever get through this?"
11. LETTING GO is foregoing someone who has been a part of your life
SETTING FREE is foregoing someone who has been your life
12. LETTING GO is letting someone walk out or your life with arms wide open
SETTING FREE is letting someone walk out of your life with eyes wide shut

pagkabug-ata aning pagka-estoryaha makapanghinuklog man sad ta ani.

[bodacious_babe]

A friend sent this to me:

* SETTING FREE *

It's a seriously hard thing to let something you love go

But, you know the old saying...

"if you love something, set it free"



It may be true, but when the time comes to set that

thing free, it's as if life throws you one of the

sharpest curveballs.



As soon as what you love is set free,

you're either going to hit or miss.



A friendship is one of life's most sacred treasures.

When a friendship is made, a special bond is weaved.

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So,

....I would rather have a true friend than end up with nothing at all..

[takas bahay]

Letting go = killed na

Setting free = gi paikyas

[mcjun23]

letting go = setting free.. pareho ra.. hehehe