Am I Inlove again with my x?

[idolpunk]

Hi Guyz,

I just want to ask some advice from our fellow Istorians..

This is the situation:


1 month na mi buwag sa akong GF...We've been together for 1yr and 6 months. We decided to broke up because ngskol pako and I cant take a lot of commitments. I told her na d kaya nko na naay uyab while ngskol kay lisud i-study...So....ni ok cya but against on her heart.

one of my reason why I want to break up with her is that samukan ko niya...and I cant focus...and I want to find my happiness with other person..I want to give myself time to enjoy being single..
D man gd nko ma-enjoy akong self coz we are not the same when it comes to HILIG2x...Kapuyan ko mutubag sa iyang mga questions..Ganahan ko mu-open nya ug topics pero kapuyan gyud ko...

I tried to search for other yet I failed...I cant imagine myself being with someone else..I know there are lots of differences between us..There are lot of things that we are not compatible. she's not long legged, she is not that tall, not that sexy(In my own standard)...BUT I STILL WANT HER...Im not that mature enough to accept those things but Im trying my very best...I WANT HER....

Soo...after pila ka weeks, something is missing gyud..mgthink ko niya pirmi nya maworry ko kng dugay siya mu-uli from work(3yrs among gap..21 ko then siya 24)..and mgthink gyud ko kong unsay kuwang sa among relationship para mu work kay everytime na mutawag cya kay masamukan ko pero mgcgi ko ug think niya...I can imagine myself sending my whole life..but Im afraid kay basi masayup ko..I dont want to make a mistake na mgsuffer ko for my whole life...I know that happiness is a choice but lisuran gyud ko...

I keep on searching for my happiness but I realize na mahappy sad ko niya but there is something missing nmo...and that is what I want to find..I need your advice guyz...

Thankz and more power.....

[yvonne6]

omg, you sounded just like my ex, nga karon, murag mending mi sa among relationship. we had been together for almost 6 years (next month na unta) then we broke up pagka april kay samukan sad siya nako. older sad ko niya, how many years? (secret, haha) but we already have a 4 year old son. dugay na kaau ni niya gipangayo nako nga he wanted a life without me kay gusto niya ma enjoy ang mga things alone, kay dili sad mi parehas ug hilig. so after so many heartaches, i gave in to what he has long wished for, nag break mi. i was so hurt nga almost everyday, naa ko diri sa istorya.net para magpahungaw. daghan ni follow sa among story and eventually i started meeting new people. long story short, i met someone from here, kinsa siya? amo na lang na. he knew about everything namo ni ex. so, date2 mi ni istorya guy until nagka kami gyud. before i met this new guy, i changed my routine, i started dieting in may and focused on exercising. i lost a lot of weight jud. naka notice of course si ex. then wala magdugay, naa na gyuy nisulti niya nga nakit an ko with this new guy. of course, ni admit ko nga im dating the guy, infact, kami na. diri na nagsugod ug bali ang hangin. although si ex is not saying anythikng, his actions speak louder than words. in short, nadutlan ug selos. naa nay mokalit lang ug adto sa hauz at 12 midnight to check if someone is in bed with me. mo adtog sayu sa buntag kay mo ask diin ko the wholetime nga wala daw ko mohapit sa ila nga tua man ang bata. nag share mi sa among anak. ga skul man ko, so weekends ra naa nako ang bata. then one time, nasakpan nako siya sneaking on my cellphone, gipangbasa ang mga msgs. yesterday, wala nako maka agwanta, ako siya gi ingnan, mag talk ta about ani atong sitwasyon beh. akong new bf, hadlok na mo ari sa hauz kay permi ka mo ari uninvited, hadlok siya mag abot mo, mag gubot unya, gamay raba to nga taw. kinsa pa may mo duol nako nga sige man gihapon kag tapot nako? mao to, nisulti siya sa tanan nga taud2 na niya gi tago. love pa daw ko niya, dili pa daw siya ready mo let go nako, na miss daw niya akong care. in short, gusto makigbalik. hahay...wala ko kasabot kay siya ang gusto nga mag buwag mi. i had the understanding nga dili nako niya love, nya, mao ni, gikaon tanan niya gi istorya niadto. gaan na lag chance kay naa man mi anak, of course, he has the biggest spot in my heart sad. pero salig lagi, ingon siya, confident daw kaau siya. so mao na, share lang ko

[Blackjellybean27]

mao jud ni ingon nako when you lose someone that's the only time you will begin to feel their absence...
i think my ex still holds a torch for me hehe... misses me a lot... of course, k when i love i really love, to the best that i can (char!), so i guess the girl he's with now k kulang pag give niya ug love, mao na mag email2x pa nako, basta mag communicate... char kaau, and when he's in cebu k he will let me know jud even though he's here for the night lang.. and it gets me confused as well, coz of course mag think ko na he "hates" me pero he still wants to see me... char kaau oi...

i guess let this be a lesson to people, before you leave someone make sure you're making the right decision k basin you might regret it lang

[james_chaw]

mao gyud ning akong dili masabtan sa mga tao. makigbuawag ug uyab, unya balikon ra d.i to niya. what's up with that? kung makig buwag, buwag na gyud...cut off na.

[tikLish]

wa pa guro nimo xa nailhan ug au kay naa my something missing..hehe..if u want to win her back, go ahead.. weigh ur thoughts sa b4 ka mo-decide..

[butong101]

take it slow..
you'll find your answers soon..

[ozracing]

omg, you sounded just like my ex, nga karon, murag mending mi sa among relationship. we had been together for almost 6 years (next month na unta) then we broke up pagka april kay samukan sad siya nako. older sad ko niya, how many years? (secret, haha) but we already have a 4 year old son. dugay na kaau ni niya gipangayo nako nga he wanted a life without me kay gusto niya ma enjoy ang mga things alone, kay dili sad mi parehas ug hilig. so after so many heartaches, i gave in to what he has long wished for, nag break mi. i was so hurt nga almost everyday, naa ko diri sa istorya.net para magpahungaw. daghan ni follow sa among story and eventually i started meeting new people. long story short, i met someone from here, kinsa siya? amo na lang na. he knew about everything namo ni ex. so, date2 mi ni istorya guy until nagka kami gyud. before i met this new guy, i changed my routine, i started dieting in may and focused on exercising. i lost a lot of weight jud. naka notice of course si ex. then wala magdugay, naa na gyuy nisulti niya nga nakit an ko with this new guy. of course, ni admit ko nga im dating the guy, infact, kami na. diri na nagsugod ug bali ang hangin. although si ex is not saying anythikng, his actions speak louder than words. in short, nadutlan ug selos. naa nay mokalit lang ug adto sa hauz at 12 midnight to check if someone is in bed with me. mo adtog sayu sa buntag kay mo ask diin ko the wholetime nga wala daw ko mohapit sa ila nga tua man ang bata. nag share mi sa among anak. ga skul man ko, so weekends ra naa nako ang bata. then one time, nasakpan nako siya sneaking on my cellphone, gipangbasa ang mga msgs. yesterday, wala nako maka agwanta, ako siya gi ingnan, mag talk ta about ani atong sitwasyon beh. akong new bf, hadlok na mo ari sa hauz kay permi ka mo ari uninvited, hadlok siya mag abot mo, mag gubot unya, gamay raba to nga taw. kinsa pa may mo duol nako nga sige man gihapon kag tapot nako? mao to, nisulti siya sa tanan nga taud2 na niya gi tago. love pa daw ko niya, dili pa daw siya ready mo let go nako, na miss daw niya akong care. in short, gusto makigbalik. hahay...wala ko kasabot kay siya ang gusto nga mag buwag mi. i had the understanding nga dili nako niya love, nya, mao ni, gikaon tanan niya gi istorya niadto. gaan na lag chance kay naa man mi anak, of course, he has the biggest spot in my heart sad. pero salig lagi, ingon siya, confident daw kaau siya. so mao na, share lang ko

kaluoy pud sa imo new guy yvonne..imo na cxa gi dumped? tsk tsk tsk

[salbahis]

i planning to file an annulment on my marriage (again), thats why karon ni distance nako sa ako wife... para atleast ug mawala na siya... dili na lisod... i cant say that she will be gone instanly but i will try.... so dapat before ka ni buwag you should make sure that youa re ready or else ikaw ray giluto sa kaugalingon nimong mantika.... its ok to love your ex but for what reason?, if you really love her/him, wa ta mo magbuwag.... di mo parehas ug hilig? find mo something nga kamo duha ma interest.... ako bitaw di pareha ug hilig sa ako wife.... pero atleast we find onething nga pareha mi ug hilig... we love watching movie sa akog netbook or computer.... we rarely watch sa sine....

then again we are going down drain due to other marital problem ug dili tungod nga gusto na nako ma enjoy ang pagka single...

[organizedchaos]

aw mao nay opposites attract.. hehehe.. ayg tuo ana kay in d long run... mo matter jud ng parehas mog hilig... right now ga long ra ka niya kay part man xa sa imo system for almost 2yrs... normal nga naa jud something imo pangitaon.. also it seems like pwerte nimo paningkamot makakita og lain... well di na pangitaon... moabot na.. and 1 thing ngano samot kag long nya kay basin na busted ka sa lain or wa jud ka kitag iilis... mao na ang pagbasol naa jud sa ulahi.. di pwede sa atubangan... u wanted the freedom.. kaluoy intawn sa bayi mao ra to imo rison.. which is also d same rison why u think u want her back...

maybe its better that u take yer time.. chill and like what u said concentrate sa studies.. yer lucky friends pa mo.. hurting her the 2nd time around.. basin papanitan naka ana.. lol... nwe mao ra na ako take bro... gudluck.. nice for u if nahan pa xa magtigbalik nimo..

u might want to ponder on this: https://www.istorya.net/forums/blogs/...ever-knew.html

also: https://www.istorya.net/forums/blogs/...ml#comment1566

[babygrace_pilapil]

d mngud ka mkontento... huhu..ngita kag perfect sah?