Hubbys female friend

[sugar_rush23]

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i believe..kanang 50-50 bagay ra na sa mag uyab pa.

kai murag wala pamay sense of security na nga stage.

but once mag minyo na..then kana siguro...share namo 100%

ahh..naa gali uyab pa..naa nmn gali access ang uyab sa tanang account..sa fb, friendster, multiply, email..ug unsa pa dha....

so basically, you might want to dig deeper.

You are absolutely right sis. I wish I have known it before we got married..perhaps we wont be reaching at this stage and no feelings will ever get hurt...and then he can have all his 100% to himself and spends his time with this girl as much as he wanted to...

[burakdaylabsburakdoy]

Sila ra jud duha gurl...Ako pa gani gi ask ako husband if pede ko makuyog..mauwaw daw sya kay librehon ra daw sya...nya mokoyog pa daw ko basin maka ingon daw ang gurl ni aboso sya...hahahha...Unya ako pud ingnan na hala ako nalang mo bayad sa akoa...tubagan sab ta ug usik2x ra sa kwarta...paetz...

hala mam lain na jud na!..ayaw jud ug sugot ana!..murag ganahan man pud imo hubby na mukyg ana na gurl..ayaw jud ug sugot mam..ka wala nlang jud batasan ug kaikog ang gurl f imo ra hubby iya inviton!..basin nangatol na ang gurl mam kay d na man kaha na cla ok sa iya hubby pud..hihihi..

basta mam ayaw jud sugot!..panindigi imo pagka asawa kay naa kay ryt!..

[Soul Doctor]

How would you feel if you have found your husband/partner keeps chatting with a female friend til the wee hours of the morning with matching "I miss You" before logging off?

Have interrogated my husband about it, but ingon nya close fren daw nya sa high school ang gurl then karon pa daw nya nakita usab sa facebook, unsa daw dautan anang mo ingon sya ug I miss you fren...The gurl is also married with kids.. would you think Ok ra pud sa iyang husband makig chat sya sa iyang male frens with all those sweet words?

Its just ok to reconnect with old friends.

and it is reasonable to question his actions.

just dont over react or dont be too paranoid.

but be observant enough to notice something is going on.

kung magbinuang imong husband, magbinuang jud na bisan unsaon nimog bantay.
wala man kaha siyay history sa cheating?
then wala kay problema kung walay history.

[Soul Doctor]

This gurl being a "BEST FRIEND" just recently surfaced, we've been married for 11 years and have met his best and worst friends....How come I haven't heard of her before?...I don't care with whatever they had...may be it platonic or intimate as long as they will just both leave it as part of their past....Now the problem is...She asked my hubby to come with her on an Island hopping, I'm still figuring out if this is part of that friendship's missing phase or merely escalated to rekindling and worst flirting...

Best thing to do
is to suggest to your hubby that you want to go island hopping with her husband alone
while they both do their island hopping.
and observe his reactions.

[leo_trams]

Best thing to do
is to suggest to your hubby that you want to go island hopping with her husband alone
while they both do their island hopping.
and observe his reactions.

Swing sila bro? hehehe


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[leo_trams]

Its just ok to reconnect with old friends.

and it is reasonable to question his actions.

just dont over react or dont be too paranoid.

but be observant enough to notice something is going on.

kung magbinuang imong husband, magbinuang jud na bisan unsaon nimog bantay.
wala man kaha siyay history sa cheating?
then wala kay problema kung walay history.

It is not OK bro if you reconnect with old friend minus your wife/husband.
Minyo na man...so why a solo move? If minyo na, all decisions must be concurred...sus! samot na nga opposite *** ang kasabut unya old flame este old friend pa gyud. Murag lahi ra.
Imong asawa bro, makig island hopping sa iyang male friend unya wala ka apila kay sila ra gyud duha kay mag reconnect sila...sugot ka? Ahhh, sugot man diay ka no...observe lang ka...but how can you observe if you are not part of the island hopping activity?...unsa-on pud nimo pagka hibalo nga nag island hopping gyud sila?...






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[sugar_rush23]

Its just ok to reconnect with old friends.

and it is reasonable to question his actions.

just dont over react or dont be too paranoid.

but be observant enough to notice something is going on.

kung magbinuang imong husband, magbinuang jud na bisan unsaon nimog bantay.
wala man kaha siyay history sa cheating?
then wala kay problema kung walay history.

Cheating?..not that I know all the gory details...I gave him his space, usahay mo laag sya sa iyang friends or mooli sa ilang town pasagdan ra nako sya...usahay estorya nalang maabot nako..but dili ko motoo jud unless makita nako...

Flirting?....I have seen it a lot...right before my very eyes. Anything can happen on the trip & I am not being paranoid...I believe this is just a normal reaction...being his wife..for that matter. They could start flirting & get carried away...who knows..

[cheesiee]

assumptions can be a total pain. suggestion, add this girl on FB. ask her what's her relationship with your husband. Confrontation works but not jst sa imong husband dapat sa girl pd. it has to be both ways para na.a ka peace of mind. You need to be strong before you confront them. Cuz if they do have a relationship or whatever, might as well be the one to leave and if wala, you need the strength to apologize to your husband for doubting him..

that's what i would do , if i were you.

[sugar_rush23]

assumptions can be a total pain. suggestion, add this girl on FB. ask her what's her relationship with your husband. Confrontation works but not jst sa imong husband dapat sa girl pd. it has to be both ways para na.a ka peace of mind. You need to be strong before you confront them. Cuz if they do have a relationship or whatever, might as well be the one to leave and if wala, you need the strength to apologize to your husband for doubting him..

that's what i would do , if i were you.

I should do that...sooner...but need to gather some strength...and some more opinions & suggestions to help me calculate my moves....thanks!

[pretty_jasmine]

ay pa boang2x man na imoha hubby oi... ngano gd tawn personal space.. krn pa xa ga need ug space aftr 11 yrs of marriage? f i wer n ur shoes, d ko mosugot na mag island hopping cla just d two of them.. tel him straight na D KA GANAHAN sa ideya na cla lang wid out u.. paranoid na kung paranoid.. hehe! ingna pod dw xa beh f bali mo sitwasyon, mosugot kaha xa? probably he will answer YES kay he knws na u cant do that for now... and tell dat "friend" na maulaw na lang pod xa oi manlibre xa sa usa ka married man? what? wa na jd xay lain malibre na single guy? hehehe! fyt for ur ryt sis or else f cge ka observe2x lang, worst na noon an mahitabo and d na ma stop kay naka gamot na...