why is it hard to start when you ended so hurt?

[kulotzki]

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kay you won't appreciate love kung dili sakit...

[thinkspace]

lisod jud mag sugod kung wala paka totally naka get over sa previous relationship. akong tambag nimo ayaw usa sulod ug relasyon. enjoy life with friends hang out and party. avoid watching/reading love stories, listening to love songs. and the best of all concentrate to make you more beautiful like going to the gym, spa etc. once you're free from those tensions then you may try to open your heart for a relationship once more

[nicejerry]

I can relate, I been through this before, I thought I was never gonna get over the pain. At that time I tried my best to keep myself from falling to those who offered me their love because I know I'm not ready to fall in love again, I knew that jumping into a new relationship will not ease the pain and it will be another mistake that will inflict pain to me and to the other person who's willing to pick up the broken pieces for me. Years had passed and here I am now happy and very much in love. Now I'm sure about my feelings and I know I wouldn't wanna see her shed a tear for me. I hope this time it will be forever...

[[eLaine]]

maybe la paka ka move on...


i dunno lng ha..same situation ta run...grabe ko na hurt..and i know i shudnt bcuz he cheated on me..but i cant help it..mingawon japun au ko nya..every thing reminds me of him...haaaay kaloka!! but this is life..and its part of faLLing in love....im trying to move on njud..and onLy time can tell when...

[sport30]

If this break up was emotionally exhausting on you then you will need time to recover and get past the break up. You need to focus on yourself at first, forget about your ex for the time being. Take care of you for now so you can get your emotional health back. Don't be afraid to talk to your family and friends to help you get over this. The faster you can readjust and get on with your life the better. If you hang on to the sadness or even anger it will eat away at you and could make you ill. Don't put yourself down for how you handled the break up, you are sure to have done what you could so don't worry. If you are having an exceptionally hard time getting over it then maybe you should seek some counseling. A counselor would know exactly what to do to help you recover so you can move on. Make sure the help you seek is focusing on you and not your ex and what he may be going through, this about you not him. If you have decided that you want to get your ex back then you need to make sure you have gotten over your break up first. If you are still emotionally charged then you can possibly make some bad decisions towards how to get your ex back. Learn what others have done to successfully get their ex's back and follow their lead.