Ngano man most wives don't accept or listen sa advice sa ila hubbies?

[yellowpolkadotbikini]

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pride i guess

[kulitz]

brad naka sabot ko sa imong sentiments, hehehe been there na sa imong situation, what i did to my wife sa karon lang ah nga nindot na ang aura namo...is this...ayaw ug hatag nya ug advice, instead..hatagi lang sya ug idea...(ideas sa iyang mga decision kung unsay outcome kung ugaling mo palpak man)...

ang atong partner brad, naa man sad na sila own decision dili mana nimo sila hawak sa liog...yez imo na silang asawa pero dili tungod kay menyo namo hawak na nimo sya sa liog nga pwd na nimo e remote.

trust me...hatagi lang ug idea...then hatagi ug pros and cons...para maka balo na sya nga kung time ang iyang g buhat sayop..mag ask rana sya nimo ug sorry, then ikaw sad..calma lang ka kung mo sulti nya nga ingnan nimo sya nga, g ingnan na tika ug g hatagan na tika idea...pero nahitabo naman na..ayaw nalang usba...pero kung usbon pa nya knowing nga kabalo na sya sa output..aw kana naa rana nimo kung masuko naka or still imo gihapon pasayloon...

Agree kaau ko aning imo idea sir, sakto jud ka...tingog ni gikan sa isa ka asawa ha...

[Rodrigo Busa]

with regards to the topic I think there is a book out there that has an answer to this. I know because I have one. (have not finished reading it though) but the introduction was clear, men and women think on a different bandwidth.

scene 1: breakfast
wife: touches stomach of husband and said, "darling I think you should cut on your desserts".
husband: answers back, "Your no candidate for a model yourself"

scene 2: after breakfast
husband: goes to work and forgets everything that has happened.
wife: gets a measuring tape and looks at her self in the mirror, then gets a weighing scale and checks her weight.

scene 3: 5 days later.
husband: hugs his wife and said, "ummmmm, what an arm full"
wife: either cries, throws a fit, or just walk away and give him the "STARE".

I did not invent this scenario/story. this was written in a book that I have in our house.(but I have not finished it yet. )

I hope this little example helps with your problem.

eg. on how women take things seriously on the things that we usually just push aside as nothing at all.

[cryptkpr]

IMO, it's not necessarily sa iyang pagka "wife" mao dili sya mu-listen or accept sa advice sa iyang husband. iya jud nang pagkatao nga stubborn sya or dili masultihan. kana nga kinaiya naa na sa iyaha before pa sila nahimong "husband and wife". na-magnify na lang na tungod kay naminyo sila and naturally, ang husband jd ang una maka-notice ana nga kinaiya kay gapuyo na sila under the same roof...

[Rodrigo Busa]

brad naka sabot ko sa imong sentiments, hehehe been there na sa imong situation, what i did to my wife sa karon lang ah nga nindot na ang aura namo...is this...ayaw ug hatag nya ug advice, instead..hatagi lang sya ug idea...(ideas sa iyang mga decision kung unsay outcome kung ugaling mo palpak man)...

ang atong partner brad, naa man sad na sila own decision dili mana nimo sila hawak sa liog...yez imo na silang asawa pero dili tungod kay menyo namo hawak na nimo sya sa liog nga pwd na nimo e remote.

trust me...hatagi lang ug idea...then hatagi ug pros and cons...para maka balo na sya nga kung time ang iyang g buhat sayop..mag ask rana sya nimo ug sorry, then ikaw sad..calma lang ka kung mo sulti nya nga ingnan nimo sya nga, g ingnan na tika ug g hatagan na tika idea...pero nahitabo naman na..ayaw nalang usba...pero kung usbon pa nya knowing nga kabalo na sya sa output..aw kana naa rana nimo kung masuko naka or still imo gihapon pasayloon...

a wise man once told me na there are ways to manipulate even the most bull headed of foes, the most stubborn of men.

he said to convince the man give him a suggestion, make him think it is a good one, make him feel that he is the only one who can do it, then cement it with a good conclusion of what that thing can do.

(it has never failed me not even once. Well, as long as the person I am talking to is in good terms with me. eg. wala ko kalimot mag laundry sa amo habol, bedsheets, and etc. )

you see a it is better to make him think the answer came from him through your suggestions, than to command him and/or give him instructions every time.

Parehas ra gud nato gud.
kinsa man kuno ganahan na ignan ka imo asawa.
PALANGA! hugas na plato.

kaysa ignan ka imo asawa.
Darling nindot unta imo ko tabangan sa sink init man gud akng kamot gikan ko namlansa.

O! tanawa mas effective para nato ang number 2 na solution. hehehee ako anaon ko sa akng asawa astang mag dagan lagi sa kusina para manghugas nya "kuan-kuan" dayon inig ka human...