over come my fear

[MRchurchill]

Some families have special children. I guess your family has one too pero sadly lahi lang ang case kay mas grabeh. Retardation to the nth degree kay bayot jud ang usa ka anak maypa maka anak monggoloid. Or maybe maka ingon imo dad na maypa gi jakol nalang ka.

But hopefully dili ingon ani imo family and close friends. I don't know how they will react and no one here does either. Ikaw ray makatubag ana imo gud nang ginikanan and ikaw maoy nakaila nila. Expect the worse and hope for the best.

Looy jud imo gf selfish ra kaayo imo gibuhat ngano imo gipaabot ani na dugay naman diay kang bayot. But nasugdan naman and if imo jud sila ingnan, ang agian sa imo family and gf perteng sakita. Pero be fair to your gf sultihi siya at least before nimo minyoan. Ngano mahadlok man ka biyaan na bayot man diay kang dako? Try not to think only of yourself. Hadlok byaan mao di ingnan tsk tsk tsk

[babygrace_pilapil]

oks rman oi! payts ra..myman kaw ra usa sa wrld ang in.ana...kaw jud!

[Iamalbertrebs]

nowadays dawat namn na sa lipunan... THIS IS A FREE COUNTRY pero wala nay free rung panahona

[iMAX]

Some families have special children. I guess your family has one too pero sadly lahi lang ang case kay mas grabeh. Retardation to the nth degree kay bayot jud ang usa ka anak maypa maka anak monggoloid. Or maybe maka ingon imo dad na maypa gi jakol nalang ka.

But hopefully dili ingon ani imo family and close friends. I don't know how they will react and no one here does either. Ikaw ray makatubag ana imo gud nang ginikanan and ikaw maoy nakaila nila. Expect the worse and hope for the best.

Looy jud imo gf selfish ra kaayo imo gibuhat ngano imo gipaabot ani na dugay naman diay kang bayot. But nasugdan naman and if imo jud sila ingnan, ang agian sa imo family and gf perteng sakita. Pero be fair to your gf sultihi siya at least before nimo minyoan. Ngano mahadlok man ka biyaan na bayot man diay kang dako? Try not to think only of yourself. Hadlok byaan mao di ingnan tsk tsk tsk

i'll ask u sir di di ai ka mahadlok nga biyaan?! people will lost their respect towards u due to ur status...

di pd ko ing ana ka daotan nga tao nga imo na kung gi tamas tamasan ug daot porki ing ani ko, still i respect my family and gf and myself... mao gani nag dilema ko ron kay di ko ganahan maka sala sa uban tao, i'm also thinking of it, i think i am not being selfish about it... i am just protecting my family and my self... about my girlfriend yes i may be a selfish, i'll do everything just to proctect them...

anyways thanks for ur comment...

[MRchurchill]

i'll ask u sir di di ai ka mahadlok nga biyaan?! people will lost their respect towards u due to ur status...

di pd ko ing ana ka daotan nga tao nga imo na kung gi tamas tamasan ug daot porki ing ani ko, still i respect my family and gf and myself... mao gani nag dilema ko ron kay di ko ganahan maka sala sa uban tao, i'm also thinking of it, i think i am not being selfish about it... i am just protecting my family and my self... about my girlfriend yes i may be a selfish, i'll do everything just to proctect them...

anyways thanks for ur comment...

Pls ay kasuko sa akong giingon kay for sure duna kay mas grabeh na maabtan should you decide to get out of the closet. And some of the worst will come from people close to you.

Of course tanan hadlok mag inusara and hadlok biyaan. Don't worry your family won't leave you but I can't say the same for some of your friends. I know hadlok ka makasakit ug taw if muladlad ka pero mas hadlok ka kung unsay mahitabo nimo. It's ok that's human nature kay mas kuyawan man jud ang taw sa impending and immediate consequences kaysa kanang long term. But all in all ang imo kakuyaw gabunga sa unsa imo kahadlokan mahitabo nimo.

Anyway it's still up to you I was just voicing my point of view. Is the lie worth keeping? If ikaw maoy mu lie mas nindot for everyone at your expense. It will only be worth lying if you can keep your secret your entire life.

The sooner you make your decision the better for everyone else.

[HerStory]

Think a million time siguro po before magdecide. mura kaw ra jud maka decide ana. but if i were your friend owkie ra man na sa ako. it's a different story man gud sa imo family. labi na if usa lang kaw na anak na guy. labi na pud na sa side sa imo gf. sakit na sya siguro pud. but the thing is kaysa naman madugay dugay pa. and before you make a move. please please think jud maayo na usre na jud kaw ana sa imo isulti sa tanan. k mura lisud lisud na na pagbawi.

[compayan]

Tell your GF the truth. But timing is important. Pasabta lang siya kung ngano nga naa kay laing bagbati sa mga lalaki. Unya friend nalang mo. Ang lisud sa imong ginikanan kung ikaw ray lalaki sa inyong pamilya. kung daghan mo magsuon lalaki, murag sayon nalang na. Parti sa imong mga amigo, kung tinuod nga amigo musabut rana sila. Makadawat gyudka insulto way tihiktihik. Pero di man sila nagpakaon nimo why bother, they are not real friends. They might hurt your feeling a bit and it will come to pass. Naay advantage kung maykaya imong pamilya, kay dali ra marecover sa imong inferiority complex. IMO