I'm in love with my man but I can't have him and now comes the worst part of it...

[crush_23]

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A doctor says he's got only 5 months to live. What shall I do? I love him so much that I would want to be with him at this time that he needs me most but I can't. You see we are in a very, very complicated relationship. I can't even call or text him to check how he is. I can only wait for him to communicate to me. What shall I do? I want to make the most out of what is left for us but how? Shall I just wait here?

i guess it's okey to communicate and ask how he is doing ayaw lang saguli ug kanang sumthing makapalagot sa iyang partner guro...ask lang musta sya gud..

[thadzonline]

Pain only comes when you can't accept the things you can't change. But if and when you learn to accept the truth and the pain that comes with it, it becomes lesser of a load. I guess what I'm saying is that I am learning to accept the complications now. I just wanted to be with him now that he is in this situation- doctor says he has barely 5 months to live.
I agree, life is indeed beautiful. But it becomes even more beautiful when shared with the one that you truly love and loves you back tenfolds.

Sorry ha, but I think the more apt word is "attachment" rather than "love". Cliche as it may sound but letting go and setting free of the one you truly love holds good meaning here. Isn't it selfish to keep hoping for the benefit of yourself despite the complications it brings not only to you but most particularly to him?

I'd agree with you that life is indeed beautiful when shared with the few wonderful ones we meet along the way. But are you not also shutting the world down from giving you many more beautiful experiences and the opportunity to meet more wonderful persons just because you focused all your energy into the situation?

It might be probably hard to find it in yourself to let go and set free and even harder to risk sharing yourself with the world once more. But would you rather stay and keep hurting yourself, him and his loved ones?

Do you truly love him? Do you want him to keep going through these complications then?

[walker]

wow, bilib ko sa TS ma inlove....go go go sis....and dont believe what doctors say. they are not gods. do not be offended by the other comments here...they do not know what love truly is like you do.

[organizedchaos]

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Originally Posted by organizedchaos
TS: i would assume that the man has his own family and since it shows that you are very aware of this, then you shouldn't be complaining about the situation. Obviously he wants to be with his first/legal family.. why i say this? its because if he wanted to be with you, then you wouldn't be having this problem.. ayt? Now.. understandably.. lisod jud na imoha situation kay basta love nimo.. aguy.. kasakit.. but then again, kibaw naka ana before pa nimo gisudlan ang imo relationship with him. come to think of it, if not for him given just 5 months to live then i guess y'all be having fun now. You will just have to brace yourself for the imminent future.

Yes, I am indeed aware of the situation I am in. I believe so that since he has his legal family, then he has to be legally be with them too. The only reason he's not with me is because he can not be. Lives will be affected, hearts will be broken. Too many people will be affected.

it sounds like you do know what is right and what is wrong.. most of the time though, this is debatable since what maybe right for others may not be right for you vice versa.. thing is love has its boundaries as well.. a good word i can think of right now is Considerate. consider how his family would take all of this.. i bet he did consider it already base on what you've stated above. thats exactly the reason why he aint choosing you. Now, be considerate enough because in the first place, you shouldnt be where you are if you did. Don't do unto others what you don't want others do unto you. If the doctors are correct and indeed he has 5 months left.. maluwas na baya xa. ikaw? buhi pa.. pwede paka balikan sa malas, you'll never know.

[walker]

TS: be strong lang. mostly males ra man nag reply diri...basin they dont know what love is...like you do. i do too.

[dearlabe]

@walker: Thanks

[yvonne6]

wrong is wrong, no matter what sacrifices u r willing to partake for a particular person, it will not justify the wrongdoings. im not judging u ts but its better if u just pray for that guy and try to look for someone else who you can claim to be yours, only yours.

[Shon]

disguise murag hitman ba

[sunsetbeauty]

disguise murag hitman ba

Hahhaha, weird. Mura man salida sa kapamilys or kapuso oi.

[farmboy]

@TS: musta na update ani?