unsaon pagtabi kung dli ka tabian?

[floppy]

wierd ayo kog pangutana nuh...bitaw, nahan q mutabi but wala q na-anad na mutabi,...so mag-hilom2x nlng q,..nasobraan na ang akong pagkahilomon,..maong nature na jd ni naq,..

i want to be as normal as anyone else,.. im trying my best to overcome my shyness or inferiority complex,.. but still, until now, i'm having this same old problem,..

bai start small....
lisod man gud na xa i.force kay mao mana mo naandan.

Try pakig close ug isa ka amigo/amiga [preferably kanang tabian, so mas maau kung babae]. Start there.
Have a different perspective towards yourself. Try focusing on what your good at not on the things you are not.

[xirc]

mutabi ra ko kung naay mangutana, inig human di na ko mutingog,

[sassy_gurL]

ako sad hilomon ko.. as in hilomon jud.. i am even afraid to start a conversation with a friend, how much more with a stranger.. im not a good conversationalist jud, EVER! masuya ko sa uban nga maayo kaayo mudala ug s2rya unya naa pa jud sense of humor.. and i couldn't think out loud.. maayo lang ko sa text, chat, writing or any other means to "talk" without using the mouth and without facing that person you're talking to..

what i do? i practice talking in front of a mirror, as if naa ko ka.storya..

suwayi unya bro, face the mirror and talk as if you're talking to someone.. time will come nga maanad ra kag sigeg storya pero ayaw lang pud palabi kay basin lahi na nag padulngan imo

[Godfall]

^^ Hahaha...kay dugay man au na sila maghuwat sa ayala...

On topic:

Anyways...ang inferiority complex if you have it... is pretty deep seated sa personality...

So lisud na siya tang-tangon...but it doesn't also mean kung naa ka ani hilumon ka.

Muingon ko ani kay I think I have met the most silent person in the world. And I don't think he has inferiority complex. Nor does he, he is pretty cool, jamming in his own silent way. He knows how to deal with people and he is fairly easy to deal with as well...

Maskina i-pm lang nimo...what makes you think that you have inferiority complex?

What do you think is inferior about yourself compared to others?

Lastly, count your blessings, not the things that you lack. Be content of who you are, if you can't strive to be a better person. Talk to people about your feelings, don't just keep it all to yourself. Talking to people about your insecurities is not weakness, you acknowledging your weaknesses is strength.

nice.... usa sad ni nako na blema sa una bro, grabe ko ka.uwawon. sugod highskul, then college hantud nigraduate nalang ug ngkawork. maulaw jud ko murecite sa una bsag kabalo ko sa tubag ug naa ko nice na opinion about sa topic, then sa job interview mura jud ko malumos. hehehe. karun maulaw gyapon ko pero dli na jud pareha sa una. but how i wish sa una pa ni nko conquer ako kaulaw. so be yourself lang jud, don't pretend na ing.ana(whoever you want to be) ka bsag dli. lahi2 jud ang personality sa tawo. then kung gusto nmu madevelop nang imu conversation skills kuyog pirmi sa mga tawo na tabian. then find a way to boost your confidence.

[littlelad]

btaw, tapad mo ni teda lad! tan-awn nato kung dli ba ka mutingog. haha!

hahaha!!! katingog jd q kung mangutana c teda eyy,..lol

kiss basta dli mu tingug..

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pru kung akuy littlelad, DI KU MU TINGUG UY PARA KISSAN KUNG ADET PRMI.! nyahahahahahahahahaha

nice one,..asa d i ang kiss?...

haha! mao ka.

correct me if im wrong ha...dli ka mutingog bsta dli unhan sa? hehe. inferiority complex has its roots...btaw, y d'you feel inferior? how was your childhood d.i bai?

sa akon childhood,.. tabian man daw q sauna,.. as in OA daw q,.. but nkarealize q na dli good,.. maong nagbehave nlng q,..pero nkarealize na pd q na nasobraan na halos dli na jd q mutingog permi,..

same case rajud ta brad.
murag mas grabe paman tngae ko.. well hinuon hilumon man jud basta walai muduol or walai mu una ug approach.. lol, naah pero kung sugdan nag tabi dugai na maghuman kusog pa agik.ikai..
why nkasulti ko nga grabe pa ako, kai tungod ang ako ra tawng friend or shud i say bestfriend atm kay ang ako comp.. hahah... kay sa tinuod lang d jud ko open nga pagkatawo, even to my parents ambut lang mura rag wa akong trato nila =s

aq pd sa close ra q tabian,.. and tabian jd na hap with matching tawa tawa,.. and dli pd q open sa akon paernts...

ayaw nalang mo anang tabea lisod na.....

unsai nka-lisod ani bro?

[littlelad]

bai start small....
lisod man gud na xa i.force kay mao mana mo naandan.

Try pakig close ug isa ka amigo/amiga [preferably kanang tabian, so mas maau kung babae]. Start there.
Have a different perspective towards yourself. Try focusing on what your good at not on the things you are not.

tnx sa advise... dghan man q close frinds,.. n open q nla,.. yet seldom nami mgkita2x coz bz cla,... chalenge naq ron ky meet new frnds and develop my comunication skills,.. good luck to me!

mutabi ra ko kung naay mangutana, inig human di na ko mutingog,

sem here,..lol

ako sad hilomon ko.. as in hilomon jud.. i am even afraid to start a conversation with a friend, how much more with a stranger.. im not a good conversationalist jud, EVER! masuya ko sa uban nga maayo kaayo mudala ug s2rya unya naa pa jud sense of humor.. and i couldn't think out loud.. maayo lang ko sa text, chat, writing or any other means to "talk" without using the mouth and without facing that person you're talking to..

what i do? i practice talking in front of a mirror, as if naa ko ka.storya..

suwayi unya bro, face the mirror and talk as if you're talking to someone.. time will come nga maanad ra kag sigeg storya pero ayaw lang pud palabi kay basin lahi na nag padulngan imo

hahaha...i also talk by myself,.. and okay lng cya,..murag boang,..lol

nice.... usa sad ni nako na blema sa una bro, grabe ko ka.uwawon. sugod highskul, then college hantud nigraduate nalang ug ngkawork. maulaw jud ko murecite sa una bsag kabalo ko sa tubag ug naa ko nice na opinion about sa topic, then sa job interview mura jud ko malumos. hehehe. karun maulaw gyapon ko pero dli na jud pareha sa una. but how i wish sa una pa ni nko conquer ako kaulaw. so be yourself lang jud, don't pretend na ing.ana(whoever you want to be) ka bsag dli. lahi2 jud ang personality sa tawo. then kung gusto nmu madevelop nang imu conversation skills kuyog pirmi sa mga tawo na tabian. then find a way to boost your confidence.

yes,..that's my challenge this year,...

[sassy_gurL]

hahaha...i also talk by myself,.. and okay lng cya,..murag boang,..lol

hahaha.. ka-relate?

btaw bro, mas confident ko kung akong ka.storya kay imaginary pero kung ka face to face na gni nako, mabulol jud ko oi!

[miss_shobie]

hala d ko ka relate kay tabian man ko daan gud since birth na ni.. ^^

[littlelad]

hala d ko ka relate kay tabian man ko daan gud since birth na ni.. ^^

yikes,..oh,,.nakarelate q eyy...hehee

hahaha.. ka-relate?

btaw bro, mas confident ko kung akong ka.storya kay imaginary pero kung ka face to face na gni nako, mabulol jud ko oi!

ahw,..advice nlng eyy,...hehee

[littlelad]

i find myself so weird,..kay sa istorya.net,..kay tabian kaayo q,..but kung personal nah,..dli jd mu-tingog,..cge lng,...ingon cla join toastmaster nlng kuno q,..pra ma-improve aq communication skills,..