
Originally Posted by
martiristic
Yes, true mura ug gituyo gyud ang tanan... Dili katuohan pero I found out about the latest girl of mu husband thru the internet. God truly have his amazing ways to awaken me. I found a piece of paper from my husband's luggage with a school address (Bulacan) written on it. One day my nephew who is alaso a seaman on vacation came from Manila and stay with us for a night. He went online using our computer. He opened his friendster account while we were discussing how liberated girls are nowadays. He cited an example of a friend in friendster whom he was only able to know when he joined an online group. He opened her account where her shoutout was inviting horny men to call her as she is as horny as well. When I came across her profile, I found out that she is studying on the same address which I found. Curiously, I dialled one of her posted numbers and asked her whether she know someone of my husband's name. I could not believe it but she did and when I told her about who I am, she was likewise surprised. We talked for five consecutive nights and she confessed everything between them. She was even introduced by my husband to his lady cousin who confirmed the introduction. She told me " why are you nice to me? are you not supposed to get angry with me ?" I just can't because I know that she is also a victim and at her young age, she was also exploited by him. She is only three years older than my eldest daughter. I would not want my daughter to likewise get exploited the same way he did to all the young girls he is victimizing. The biggest blow of her confessions was that my husband show her how much money he has in the bank thru the ATM. The figure was all true and that he promised her that he is going to buy a house for her when he comes home. What was more surprising is that her friendster account which we found out was actually made by one of his other girls who found her numbers and photos in my husband's celfone and made an account out of it. They have been fighting all along before I came in. She gave me the numbers of that other girl who happens to be a call center agent. I talked to her and likewise she admitted of their relationship. I asked them both of their email account and send them photos to prove that the man they have been fighting for is very much a married man. I do not have communication with them anymore as they changed numbers. I'm just not interested anymore whether they went on with their affairs or not. I know that these are girls are only some of those whom I just happen to know of but there are plenty more. I cannot keep on clearing his mess just to win him back to us. There really is something wrong with his person and I cannot do anything to to change his ways. I'm tired and I find all effort useless because he has no intention to change despite previous confrontations. I surrender eveything to the LORD ... its HIS will for me to know all about this so I'm not going to put it all to waste by tolerating my husband once again.
Thank you for taking time to listen to me ... you all did touched my heart.