@TS,
we'll I think it really depend on what type of guy you should hang out with..
there are guys who doesn't give a damn about how they look or what food they eat or the clothes they wear.. un organize, unorthodox and messy... those who are the rugged and cowboy ones..
then there are guys who likes to be clean shaven, neat and organize and meticulous with their things..
they are sometimes soft spoken in nature and the not so bold and daring ones, often shuns adventure and would settle for a nice and quite dinner with family and friends lang.
Again, I think it depends on what type of guy you dig also...